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Why would he say this Mummy-2-2-Monsters 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 8985 posts
status 12th May '13

Today was a lovely day. Nice breakfast, lunch and dinner. Then on the way home .... I don't know how we stumbled upon this gem of a conversation. But we were talking about this girl he knew when he was around 18-20 yo. He tells me this... "You're beautiful, but she was GORgeous, like drop dead GORgeous." Then I asked him why then is he with me if I'm not the whole package. "I guess I settled" .. I asked him why and then ... "I was getting old (he was only 26) and you were a cute small town young girl who didn't expect much" ....



I'm hurt. Really hurt.



I'm giving him the silent treatment.

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60938 posts
12th May '13

:( That's awful for him to say, I'm blown away. I'm so sorry.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
12th May '13

what a douche!



sorry mama

[yo.] 1 child; Gayville, South Dakota 13371 posts
12th May '13

Oh HELL no. I would be livid.

Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
12th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting [yo.]:</b>" Oh HELL no. I would be livid."</blockquote>




WORD!

Mama Van D Due November 3; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Unity, Maine 2454 posts
12th May '13

I would never speak to DH again if he said shit like that. What an a*****e!

✩BG Addict +2 2 kids; Ohio 24298 posts
12th May '13

i would of been balling my eyes out! some people REALLY need to THINK before they SPEAK!

Nichole Spurlock 2 kids; Cornelia, Georgia 429 posts
12th May '13

What on earth?! Does he not have a brain to mouth filter?!

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
12th May '13

I would've punched him in the f**king face..... seriously. what a dick. *insert foot in mouth*

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
12th May '13

That is horrible...you don't deserve that :(

j0des(+2) 18 kids; Virginia 5095 posts
12th May '13

I wouldnt be able to speak to him after that.



What a dudebag.

Mummy-2-2-Monsters 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 8985 posts
status 12th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nichole Spurlock:</b>" What on earth?! Does he not have a brain to mouth filter?!"</blockquote>




He saw how upset I was just a few minutes ago when he tried to cuddle me. Ha ha ha ha yeah right ...



He said he didn't mean to hurt my feelings and was just joking around. I told him what he told me. And he said he's an a*****e and didn't realise it was so mean. Said he actually didn't mean it.



I told him that's fine, but he needs to earn his forgiveness. And he can find out how to earn it. He is sleeping on the floor of the play room with the kids blankets.



See how he fixes this.



(I understand how he meant to only be joking, but he's such a f**king idiot that hasn't got a filter and that really completely and utterly hurt me)

Mummy-2-2-Monsters 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 8985 posts
status 12th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I♥RYLEIGH:</b>" I would've punched him in the f**king face..... seriously. what a dick. *insert foot in mouth*"</blockquote>



He gave me his hand to smack and I smacked him in the head.. He said he didn't deserve that until I broke it down how he did deserve more.

Jax 3 kids; Sydney, NS, Australia 2888 posts
12th May '13

kinda had the same thing happen. Except it was recently with a girl on his fb. Said she was gorgeous, beautiful, absolutely stunning, the perfect package.
And what am i......I have a very pretty face.

Lindefrau no, mo, Australia 1125 posts
12th May '13

That is a horrible thing to hear especially on Mother's Day. I am sorry to hesr that and that you are feeling down.