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not able to orgasm? Aubrey(:Ryleigh TTC since May 2013; 2 kids; Lubbock, TX, United States 145 posts
13th May '13

Im way too shy to talk to family/friends about this problem so i thought id check on here and see if anyone else has experience this..



Before I had my Implanon I had no problems having an orgasm during sex, but it seems like ever since I've had it i haven't been able to.. I never thought it could be because of my birth control then i googled it one day and saw other people having this issue.. I have the urge to have sex with my SO a lot.. and i enjoy it but i can never orgasm... its starting to bother him a lot and idk what to do :(



Any suggestions?

Mooches 16 kids; Japan 1913 posts
13th May '13

Can you get a different kind of birth control?

Aubrey(:Ryleigh TTC since May 2013; 2 kids; Lubbock, TX, United States 145 posts
13th May '13
Quoting Mooches:" Can you get a different kind of birth control?"


I forgot to add that, i had my implanon taken out on the 3rd

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
13th May '13

Role play. Have him play with your vagina or eat you out till you have that feeling like you're going to have an orgasm. I think what you need to do, is play with yourself and figure out what gets you off now that you have the BC, then let DH know when you guys are getting it on. :wink:

Aubrey(:Ryleigh TTC since May 2013; 2 kids; Lubbock, TX, United States 145 posts
13th May '13
Quoting Now and Forever:" Role play. Have him play with your vagina or eat you out till you have that feeling like you're going ... [snip!] ... yourself and figure out what gets you off now that you have the BC, then let DH know when you guys are getting it on. :wink: "


we've tried that, i feel like we've tried everything, i dont know how to explain it, its like i get to that point but i never actually orgasm.. its really weird..

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 75218 posts
13th May '13

I'm only able to orgasm sometimes, like when SO plays with my clit (sorrrrrrry tmi haha) and I'm not on any BC, it really sucks. :(

Aubrey(:Ryleigh TTC since May 2013; 2 kids; Lubbock, TX, United States 145 posts
13th May '13
Quoting bia.:" I'm only able to orgasm sometimes, like when SO plays with my clit (sorrrrrrry tmi haha) and I'm not on any BC, it really sucks. :("



thats how i am, the only way ive been able to is if he plays with it.. i feel bad :-/ and i dont know how to explain it to him or make him understand

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
13th May '13

Have you tried using a bullet?

Aubrey(:Ryleigh TTC since May 2013; 2 kids; Lubbock, TX, United States 145 posts
13th May '13
Quoting The Blissful Six:" Have you tried using a bullet?"


No.. I havent tried any toys or anything..

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
13th May '13
Quoting A*A*R:" No.. I havent tried any toys or anything.. "


I would!! I use a bullet and love it. I need clitoral stimulation to orgasim.

Aubrey(:Ryleigh TTC since May 2013; 2 kids; Lubbock, TX, United States 145 posts
13th May '13
Quoting The Blissful Six:" I would!! I use a bullet and love it. I need clitoral stimulation to orgasim."


thanks! :) Im getting online now to find one!

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
13th May '13
Quoting A*A*R:" thanks! :) Im getting online now to find one! "


Good luck!!