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(for a friend) I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13

and this is, actually, for a friend.



vroom vroom

wwyd?



please no quoting.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
May 15th '13

Relocate ad start a new life and make sure he was gone from my life for good.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" Relocate ad start a new life and make sure he was gone from my life for good."


i told her she should at least tell him, but then get a restraining order on him if he starts shit..

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" Relocate ad start a new life and make sure he was gone from my life for good."

!!!!!



I wouldn't tell him.

♔ BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 84286 posts
May 15th '13

The way that he acted towards her doesn't mean he should lose the right to know about his child. I would tell him and at least give him a chance to be a father.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:

agreed. she said that he would want her to abort and thats not something she would do. i still think he shouldk now..

kr.r 1 child; Kansas City, MO, United States 8737 posts
May 15th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:</b>" I'd have to tell him. Even though he was a shit boyfriend, he might be a decent father. If not, tell ... [snip!] ... But everyone deserves to be in their child's life if they want to, and he should have that choice to make for himself. "</blockquote>




This. I might lean more toward the relocating and starting a new life, rid of the bastard, if he was physically abusive simply out of fear that he'd do the same to the child.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting kr.r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:</b>"

he was never physically at all, i know that. the point of the emotional im not sure, i know hes a d**k, but i dont think hed ever physically hurt anyone

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8816 posts
May 15th '13

She should definately tell him & the sooner the better. The longer she waits or if someone else finds out and tells him first can cause major drama......
If he really was mentally abusive and she wants to be away from him then she needs to move b4 the child is born so that he cant legally make her & the baby stay close to him.

Jenna Oakes Due September 22; TTC since Sep 2012; 1 child; Florida 85 posts
May 15th '13

I would never tll the father if I was her. just imagine he would do if he found out she was pregnant. she just needs to move on and start a new life. there is someone out there who will fall in love with her and her baby.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13

she said she texted him.. no response yet :/

Minion 3 kids; ., GA, United States 21802 posts
May 15th '13

I was in that same position. I told the dad I was pregnant and If I knew then what I know now I would have never have told him. He doesn't have anything to do with DD, but for a while he made my life hell.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting Minion:"

what did he do? im sorry mama. he still didnt respond. shes a nervous wreck :( i feel so bad for her, she was on BC and now she feels its too late to get an abortion. shes been so stressed she didnt even realize she missed a period till yesterday, and we jokingly took a test together because IM 3 weeks late, and mine was neg and hers is pos :(

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 37223 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting I Stab People:" what did he do? im sorry mama. he still didnt respond. shes a nervous wreck :( i feel so bad for her, ... [snip!] ... a period till yesterday, and we jokingly took a test together because IM 3 weeks late, and mine was neg and hers is pos :("


:( Does she know its not too late? I would not want a link to connect me to that a*****e or his abusive ways.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
May 15th '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" :( Does she know its not too late? I would not want a link to connect me to that a*****e or his abusive ways. "


yes she knows.

i dont think i would want that link either :/