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A bad day ends in shock and awe... Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

Yesterday was a big day a lot of ups and downs. I thought I was having a miscarriage then the emergency staff prepped me for surgery invade it was an ectopic pregnancy. I cried but tried to stay calm. I had an hour long ultrasound and of course they wouldn't let me see. Then back in emergency a new doctor came to see me I thought that meant surgery, but I got news I never expected. He told me I was having twins both had fetal heart rates one is sitting on a fibroid my hcg levels are 17485 and I'm around 9.5 to 10 weeks. I have never been so happy I'm completely shocked its twins! I know this is going to be a difficult road but I know now that I'm a strong person and ill do whatever it takes. My ex was so happy then completely speechless I can't help but have some hope that this might change him.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
15th May '13

congrats on the good news. was your ex at the hospital with you? i hope you werent going through the grief of expecting 1 outcome to shock of what was truly going on !

Live-Laugh-Love 3 kids; Kitchener, ON, Canada 7865 posts
15th May '13

Awwe that's amazing news! Congrats :D

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" congrats on the good news. was your ex at the hospital with you? i hope you werent going through the grief of expecting 1 outcome to shock of what was truly going on !"</blockquote>




No he works out of province, I haven't seen him since before we split. He is supposed to come see our little girl this weekend. But I wasn't alone I had a friend with me. I could only text him and the last text he got was me saying I'm prepped for the or my friend will call u if I go in they said I won't have time to call. So needless to say it was one heck of a shock lol

Sara❥ TTC since May 2014; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 8751 posts
status 15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:</b>" Yesterday was a big day a lot of ups and downs. I thought I was having a miscarriage then the emergency ... [snip!] ... do whatever it takes. My ex was so happy then completely speechless I can't help but have some hope that this might change him."</blockquote>



Awe! How exciting. Best day ever, right? :)

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting sαяα:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:</b>" Yesterday was a big day a lot ... [snip!] ... I can't help but have some hope that this might change him."</blockquote> Awe! How exciting. Best day ever, right? :)"</blockquote>




Yep stuck with a perma grin now lol

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
15th May '13
Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" congrats on the good news. was ... [snip!] ... the or my friend will call u if I go in they said I won't have time to call. So needless to say it was one heck of a shock lol"


R u & ex on good terms? You will need alot of support ! do twins run in your family?

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Live-Laugh-Love 14 weeks:</b>" Awwe that's amazing news! Congrats :D"</blockquote>




Thank you! I'm so excited and relieved the pain is 100x more bearable knowing everything is ok

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" R u & ex on good terms? You will need alot of support ! do twins run in your family?"</blockquote>




It's been very up and down I love him so much but he chose alcohol over us. His grandmother was a twin but it should have skipped our generation from what I e been told. I hope maybe thus will change him but I don't want to get my hopes up

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
15th May '13
Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" R u & ex on good terms? You ... [snip!] ... have skipped our generation from what I e been told. I hope maybe thus will change him but I don't want to get my hopes up"


i am sorry to hear he has an alcohol abuse problem. Is he opposed to go to counseling? Substance abuse is very rarely just because the person ''likes'' whatever substance they are abusing......it is usually a warped way of ''self medicating'' or a symptom of a underlying mental illness/mood disorder or ''drowning out'' a past issue

Sara❥ TTC since May 2014; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 8751 posts
status 15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Our Precious Little Girl:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting sαяα:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Awe! How exciting. Best day ever, right? :)"</blockquote> Yep stuck with a perma grin now lol"</blockquote>



I bet! Congrats mama.

Our Precious Little Girl Due December 8 (twins); 1 child; Saskatchewan 111 posts
15th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" i am sorry to hear he has an alcohol abuse problem. Is he opposed to go to counseling? Substance abuse ... [snip!] ... a warped way of ''self medicating'' or a symptom of a underlying mental illness/mood disorder or ''drowning out'' a past issue "</blockquote>




I have tried to get him into counselling he is so off and on about it when he is sober he is all for it but with him out there he has so many drinking friends it changed day to day. His mother drank herself to death two and a half years ago and it became a full blown issue then. There was a lot of blame placed on him and her death started as a murder investigation. He quit drinking for three months when our relationship almost ended last year then I found out he started again and it was a lot worse. We still have his moms ashes he still doesn't want to bury her and its a very sore topic.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
15th May '13

i am sorry to here that :( stay strong momma!