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He tried to kill my baby Chessie Baby Due November 2; California 56 posts
16th May '13

Hello everyone. I haven't been on in a while but something big has happened two days ago on tuesday. My brother attacked me. He tried to kill my baby by punching me in the stomach but I somehow fought him off. I called the police. They arrested him. I went to the er and they said my baby was ok. I am just in shock. More than when he raped me. I have bruises all over and it hurts to move. I'm glad my baby is okay. He hit me so hard I thought for sure it would kill both of us. My friends mom who I am living with now is helping me out. I feel very out of it.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29537 posts
16th May '13

Did you tell them that the baby is his? If they include it in the report it will help you in the longrun as far as restraining orders, etc.

If I remember correctly he tried to say he didn't rape you- he could later try to get custody (this could prevent it if everything is documented correctly).

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
16th May '13

HOLY CRAP!!! Luckily until you're in the second trimester blunt force trauma is unlikely to kill the baby. I am so sorry you're going through this. Did you file a restraining order or anything??

Chessie Baby Due November 2; California 56 posts
16th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tinana+2:</b>" Did you tell them that the baby is his? If they include it in the report it will help you in the longrun ... [snip!] ... to say he didn't rape you- he could later try to get custody (this could prevent it if everything is documented correctly)."</blockquote>




Yes because the police asked me why I thought he would try to kill my baby and I said because he doesn't want people to know he raped me.

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
16th May '13

I am so proud of you for telling them the truth. I think it will help you out a lot in the long run. Prayers for you and baby.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29537 posts
16th May '13
Quoting Chessie Baby:" <blockquote><b>Quoting tinana+2:</b>" Did you tell them that the baby is his? If they ... [snip!] ... the police asked me why I thought he would try to kill my baby and I said because he doesn't want people to know he raped me."


Good for you! I'm glad you were honest, I know it was probably hard to say. I'm so sorry he attacked you again :( I'm glad you have a safe place to stay.

Chessie Baby Due November 2; California 56 posts
16th May '13

Thank you. I wish I could stay and talk but my friends mom needs the computer. Thanks for all your support

FarminMomma Due January 31; 1 child; Huntington, West Virginia 672 posts
16th May '13

So sorry he hurt you again, but at least you had the strength to tell them now. Ill pray for you girl.

Belle. Due with #2 Due February 14; TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Alberta 4175 posts
status 16th May '13

You're pregnant with your brothers baby and you're keeping it? Is that even legal.

user banned 1 child; New Orleans, Louisiana 18159 posts
16th May '13

I'm so glad you're okay. If you didn't tell the cops the baby is his, I highly recommend doing so

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29537 posts
16th May '13
Quoting Belle.:" You're pregnant with your brothers baby and you're keeping it? Is that even legal."


Well there's nobody that can physically make her abort, and since she didn't report the rape (until she told the police as she just said) he was never arrested, etc.

user banned 1 child; New Orleans, Louisiana 18159 posts
16th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chessie Baby:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tinana+2:</b>" Did you tell them that the baby is his? If they ... [snip!] ... the police asked me why I thought he would try to kill my baby and I said because he doesn't want people to know he raped me."</blockquote>




I'm so proud of you for speaking up <3

*beck-i* {JAS08} 3 kids; Prattsburgh, New York 4778 posts
16th May '13
Quoting Belle.:" You're pregnant with your brothers baby and you're keeping it? Is that even legal."


She doesnt need to hear that she has been through enough... It is her choice.



OP - I am so sorry he did this to you and your baby but so glad you were able to tell the authorities what is going on and hopefully they can help you and your baby get justice. I wish you all the best and you are always in my prayers!!

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
16th May '13

Good for you for speaking up! Reporting everything to the police now will make everything easier for you in the long run.

Belle. Due with #2 Due February 14; TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; Alberta 4175 posts
status 16th May '13

I'm sorry, I know this is probably extremely hard for you. And it's wonderful tht you are speaking up about it and I sincerely wish you the best! But do you REALLY want to put a child through a life like that? The fetus is a result of incest rape. Now I am not trying to push anything but personally I would abort the poor fetus. No one deserves that. I mean I wouldn't have an abortion ever unless something extreme like this happend. This is the reason why abortions are legal.