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Jenny&Boopy Due June 26; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7398 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" Wtf you are stupid. You only have known him 3 months and literally havent met the daughter and he is ... [snip!] ... he will even leave his wife. You more like a fling. Sorry. A person I knew had an abortion since he never left his wife."</blockquote>




How is she a home wrecker when the guy is getting divorced? Who cares how long they've been together? Is this person you knew you? Is that why you're so bitter?



Anyways OP, it's perfectly normal to have mixed emotions no matter how long you've been with someone.

Always♥Faithful 2 kids; CHERRY POINT, North Carolina 21664 posts
18th May '13

Op, i think your feelings are normal and you dont necessarily have to feel a certain way. dh and I have been married going on 4 years and idk how I feel about this unplanned pregnancy. Lol



I hope it all works out for you! ♥

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15538 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ღFrodoliciousღ:</b>" Keep on assuming. :D Because, ... [snip!] ... to be a bitch but just trying to say that she neeeds to be careful and not get her hopes up until everything is finalized."</blockquote>



Umm no. This is her life shes not making assumptions about anything. I'm sure she has all the proof she needs to Know all those things are true.

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" ... [snip!] ... must have something wrong with you. She has said they are separated and have been. I doubt the wife is seeing him still too."



I had no doubt in my mind that he is with his ex. There are signs when things like that are going on. He is with me EVERYNIGHT except friday night because that is when he has his daughter overnight. He goes to work, gets his daughter off the bus everyday and has her until 7pm, then he waits for me to get off school. If hes fucking his ex for 2 hours, so be it, I will find out eventually, but I know he is not.

Mrs. Brightside 2 kids; Lichtensteig, Switzerland 11733 posts
18th May '13

I am in nursing school as well and I know if I have birth during nursing school, I wouldn't be able to graduate on time. Will having the baby a month before graduation interfere with your school at all?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Severus Snape:</b>" You're acting like OP planned this pregnancy. :roll: what's all your negativity doing to help her? ... [snip!] ... pregnancies happen. The situation isn't ideal but giving her a lot of shit about what she can't change isn't helping. "</blockquote>




I don't see what it would matter if she did plan it. It's her life.
I planned ds only being with now dh for 1.5 months. Shit turned out great for us, not saying it does all the time. But it all depends on the ppl actually in the situation.

Pippi & Maddi's Mommy 18 kids; Brooksville, Kentucky 1284 posts
18th May '13
Quoting PRETTY IN RED:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" I know that he is a good parent I ... [snip!] ... be telling you what he wants you to hear has it ever crossed your mind it could be the other way around and he had an affair."

Being a cunt on the internet to some pregnant chick isn't gonna fix whatever happened in your past that's making you pissy about stuff that's happening with HER, that has no impact on YOU, that is not causing harm to ANYONE.

kays`mumma Due December 2 (boy); 34 kids; Australia 441 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮[The Mrs.]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY ... [snip!] ... Yes but now is just a matter of time if he is infact leaving the wife. What if he doesnt? And 3 months is too soon. Imo"</blockquote>




Your opinion doesn't matter!
Seriously gfto if you have nothing nice to say!!
Are you in her situation? NO!! So mind your own business!!



Op doesn't matter if you just met him yesterday who really cares, Its normal to feel mixed emotions it's the whole pregnancy deal :)
As time goes on you will get happier and more excited!
Goodluck with studying aswell, I'm pregnant and studying aswell it's difficult but definitely do-able!



Congrats! :)

Jenny&Boopy Due June 26; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7398 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PipSqueak's Mommy:</b>" Being a cunt on the internet to some pregnant chick isn't gonna fix whatever happened in your past that's ... [snip!] ... that's making you pissy about stuff that's happening with HER, that has no impact on YOU, that is not causing harm to ANYONE."</blockquote>




:!: :!:

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
18th May '13
Quoting Mrs. Brightside:" I am in nursing school as well and I know if I have birth during nursing school, I wouldn't be able to ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't be able to graduate on time. Will having the baby a month before graduation interfere with your school at all?"


I plan to just have the baby and take off three days in the hospital and go straight back to graduate. It's been done. We have a few girls now who are pregnant, but they aren't lucky enough to be due a month prior to graduation. We had a girl last year who's water broke in class and she was back in 48 hrs. Her baby will be 18 months when we graduate but she is doing it.

user banned California 8675 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PipSqueak's Mommy:</b>" Being a cunt on the internet to some pregnant chick isn't gonna fix whatever happened in your past that's ... [snip!] ... that's making you pissy about stuff that's happening with HER, that has no impact on YOU, that is not causing harm to ANYONE."</blockquote>




Nothing like this happend in my past so stop assuming too. Lol

Pippi & Maddi's Mommy 18 kids; Brooksville, Kentucky 1284 posts
18th May '13
Quoting PRETTY IN RED:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PipSqueak's Mommy:</b>" Being a cunt on the internet to some ... [snip!] ... YOU, that is not causing harm to ANYONE."</blockquote> Nothing like this happend in my past so stop assuming too. Lol"


So you're just a cunt with out a cause. Really isn't better.

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
18th May '13

Best of luck to you in your pregnancy OP! Relationship wise, I hope everything works out for you and your SO. My oldest daughter wasn't at all planned, she was conceived 4 months after DH and I got together!

kays`mumma Due December 2 (boy); 34 kids; Australia 441 posts
18th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PipSqueak's Mommy:</b>" So you're just a cunt with out a cause. Really isn't better."</blockquote>




This! Haha
There was no need for her comments!

user banned California 8675 posts
18th May '13

I wish her the best but is akward for someone to encourage her just because you met your so for only a month and everything is fine. Not all relationships are like that. I am just saying to have your feet in the ground and not floating. Lol This might have a good outcome or it might not. Nothing is set in stone and shouldnt expect much until everything is finalized and know more things about him. Everyone is making assumptions and I apologize if I came harsh.