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♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
19th May '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" LOL You know what would have been the mature and rational thing to do? Not hop in the sheets with someone ... [snip!] ... hop in the sheets with someone who is still married. No shitty situation, no kid. Next time, use birth control AND condoms."



They were seperated for a year, I guess in hinesight I should not have gotten involved with him. He asked me on a date on valentines day and I guess I fell head over heels and vise versa...You can't really help who you get feelings for.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15536 posts
19th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" I think I really should just take the abortion pill. "</blockquote>



Have you talked to him about that?

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
19th May '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" I think I really should just take the abortion pill. "</blockquote> Have you talked to him about that?"


Yes, he says its up to me he'll support me either way.. but he does want me to do it. He said it would be for the best which kinda hurts that he thinkis that way

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
19th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" Yes, he says its up to me he'll support me either way.. but he does want me to do it. He said it would be for the best which kinda hurts that he thinkis that way"


He's being honest. It might hurt your feelings, but it's best that he is. Ultimately it's your decision.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15536 posts
19th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" Yes, he says its up to me he'll support me either way.. but he does want me to do it. He said it would be for the best which kinda hurts that he thinkis that way"</blockquote>



That's tough. What do YOU want to do?

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
19th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" Yes, he says its up to me he'll support me either way.. but he does want me to do it. He said it would be for the best which kinda hurts that he thinkis that way"


This whole situation is such a mess and not ideal for bringing in a new baby. I see how it could hurt but he is being honest about how he feels. As I said before you should consider abortion but ultimately it is what you can live with.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
19th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" Yes, he says its up to me he'll support me either way.. but he does want me to do it. He said it would be for the best which kinda hurts that he thinkis that way"

It may seem insensitive. But, it's smart.



Imagine the chaos with a baby mixed in.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
19th May '13

I'm late on this... but I think you're out of line to tell the mother of that child you think you should meet the daughter sooner just because you're pregnant. How would you feel if the situation was flipped? Personally I don't think you need to make a big deal about it and both be present to tell her, she doesn't need a play by play of your life. You should respect your SO's wishes on the subject.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27055 posts
19th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" I think I really should just take the abortion pill. "


The abortion pill can be a great option... I did it once and while I did love the child, it was for the best.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
20th May '13

I don't know why everyone is telling her to get an abortion like this is the worst situation for a child to be in. The girl who was raped by her brother and chose to keep the baby gets more support than this... lol

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
20th May '13
Quoting Rd.:" I don't know why everyone is telling her to get an abortion like this is the worst situation for a child ... [snip!] ... for a child to be in. The girl who was raped by her brother and chose to keep the baby gets more support than this... lol"


She seemed a lot more levelheaded and mature. Her mind was already made up.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
21st May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" I'm trying. I'm not going to demand anything from him anymore. I'm going to let him talk to her about ... [snip!] ... why he's nervous about it all. I'm going to apologize to him for being so demanding and making him feel like I'm forcing him."


did you really just say his ex is REALLY crazy, and in the same breath say "maybe worse than me" cuz thats funny.. you admit your apeshitbananas crazy yet you think its a good situation to bring a child into??



i would be making myself an apt at the clinic. your poor children dont need to be brought into that shitstorm. if i was his ex i wouldnt let him near his daughter either, hes acting like an idiot. playing house with someone elses child and now adding another to the mix. he should be with



his own kid

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
21st May '13
Quoting Rd.:" I don't know why everyone is telling her to get an abortion like this is the worst situation for a child ... [snip!] ... for a child to be in. The girl who was raped by her brother and chose to keep the baby gets more support than this... lol"


Two completely different scenarios.

Seneca Thurman 2 kids; Nashville, Tennessee 592 posts
29th May '13

Have you not even considered adoption? Abortion seems like a dumb decision, I mean you laid down and made the child, why not give it to someone that would love it and not put it into a horrible situation?

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15536 posts
29th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Seneca Thurman:</b>" Have you not even considered adoption? Abortion seems like a dumb decision, I mean you laid down and ... [snip!] ... mean you laid down and made the child, why not give it to someone that would love it and not put it into a horrible situation?"</blockquote>



Seriously? Way to push your views on abortion down someone's throat.