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Seneca Thurman 2 kids; Nashville, Tennessee 592 posts
29th May '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Seneca Thurman:</b>" Have you not even considered adoption? ... [snip!] ... not put it into a horrible situation?"</blockquote> Seriously? Way to push your views on abortion down someone's throat."

I'm pro-choice, and I'm not saying she had to use adoption, just asking if she even considered it seeing as she obviously is in a bad situation and there are plenty of people out there that would take care of her child. She seems really indecisive over the whole abortion thing, just my opinion but I wouldn't get one if I thought I would regret it later. If she can't handle another child, adoption is also an option.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15538 posts
29th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Seneca Thurman:</b>" I'm pro-choice, and I'm not saying she had to use adoption, just asking if she even considered it seeing ... [snip!] ... but I wouldn't get one if I thought I would regret it later. If she can't handle another child, adoption is also an option. "</blockquote>




There were other ways to go about telling her that. There was no need to be rude about it.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27480 posts
status 31st May '13
Quoting Seneca Thurman:" Have you not even considered adoption? Abortion seems like a dumb decision, I mean you laid down and ... [snip!] ... mean you laid down and made the child, why not give it to someone that would love it and not put it into a horrible situation?"


Last I checked, sex wasn't purely for procreation. It may be a dumb decision to you, but what IS dumb is to carry a child when you dont want it or need it. Don't worry about people loving that adopted baby, there are PLENTY of babies in this world waiting to be adopted right now without going to "OMG Dont do abortion babies need homes and people will love it!" When there are kids on their butts waiting to be adopted but no one wants them because they aren't a baby, or "perfect" in some way.