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To nice (Do Not Quote please) ShishaRae Due June 15; 17 kids; Illinois 147 posts
21st May '13

Ok I am scheduled for a csection next Thursday! I am also getting my stitches from my cerclage removed! My thing is that the surgery is at noon and every Tom Dick and Harry want tocome up that day! I'm sorry but that should be for DH and I to bond with Alexandria! My thing is I am a big push over and let people walk all over me! My sister is trying to guilt me into letting her come up by telling me she won't ever get to see her neice! WTF I live just a 10 min walk from your house! The other person I can't stand is fake as hell(DHs sister in law)! Shes pretty much just gonna be there to make sure Alexandria looks like DH! I don't understand logic behind that at all! But none of his family thinks My son or Alexandria is his because it took 10 yrs to have children! I guess I am having a hard time telling people that I think it will be better if people didn't come up till fri or just wait till we get home! As of right now I am gonna be put under general anestitic for everything due to scoliosis! I won't know more until the day of if they will try doin a epi or spinal!

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
21st May '13

Say sure and then tell the nurses not to let anyone up :wink:

pickles02030512 4 kids; Pennsylvania 331 posts
21st May '13

If you cants say NO than just nod and tell the nurses you wanna rest and would rather no one come see you unless its the baby dad you can even set up a password if they dont know it they dont see you

ShishaRae Due June 15; 17 kids; Illinois 147 posts
21st May '13

hank everyone! We where gonna have a list at the nurses station saying who can visit and what not thats what we where gonna do if I delivered in town here! But i guess my biggest thing is stopping people from driving the hr to the hospital I am delivering at!

Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 5487 posts
21st May '13

Have your husband tell his people and you tell your people that your hubby wants to be the only one there. Blame him :)

ShishaRae Due June 15; 17 kids; Illinois 147 posts
21st May '13
Quoting Kaleighshaleigh:" Have your husband tell his people and you tell your people that your hubby wants to be the only one there. Blame him :)"

LOL Thats a good idea!!