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_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" No I guess I forgot extra undies when I brought her extra clothes. :x I mean I just don't see why they ... [snip!] ... didn't just put her pants back on with out undies if she had gotten the other ones wet. Idk I just don't want diapers on them."


Well probably because that can be really uncomfortable for some kids. The seams of the pants can rub against them and stuff. Maybe she was upset about the idea of only wearing hte pants? I know Teagan would flip if I tried to put pants on her without some sort of panties or pull ups, haha.

Ꭶwan♥Nemo 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7416 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" No I guess I forgot extra undies when I brought her extra clothes. :x I mean I just don't see why they ... [snip!] ... didn't just put her pants back on with out undies if she had gotten the other ones wet. Idk I just don't want diapers on them."


So if she had another accident it would go in the pull up rather than the pants and she'd be walking around with NOTHING on? I dont know, I think you are a bit over upset at such a minor thing.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" No I guess I forgot extra undies when I brought her extra clothes. :x I mean I just don't see why they ... [snip!] ... didn't just put her pants back on with out undies if she had gotten the other ones wet. Idk I just don't want diapers on them."

You really have to ask that? I would be livid at our daycare if they put my Son bare bottomed in shorts or pants of some kind :? In fact, I'd seriously question their decision if they did that. I think the fact that they used a pull up shows good care on their part. You're the one who forgot the undies in the first place.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nem
_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" No I guess I forgot extra undies when I brought her extra clothes. :x I mean I just don't see why they ... [snip!] ... didn't just put her pants back on with out undies if she had gotten the other ones wet. Idk I just don't want diapers on them."


They aren't diapers though hun. . . And your daughter knew they were not diapers. SHe still went potty. It was something fun and different. I just don't think getting either of you worked up over it is really worth it.

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting she nan igans:" They aren't diapers though hun. . . And your daughter knew they were not diapers. SHe still went potty. ... [snip!] ... went potty. It was something fun and different. I just don't think getting either of you worked up over it is really worth it. "


:( You're right. Idk I guess I'm just uptight about stuff lately...

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" I agree. I think the daycare did right by the child. If anything the BD should have taken the pull up off when they got home. OP, did you go off on the daycare about this?"


No I didn't :? And I think you need to stop being such a b***h.
I am however going to request that they take the diaper off after naptime after I bring her undies in today.
I'm going to ask them to do it with my two year old too.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" :( You're right. Idk I guess I'm just uptight about stuff lately..."


It's alright. I understand, it can be frustrating when you're afriad of them regressing. I think sometimes we dig our heels in about something and stop seeing the big picture. I totally understand not wanting it to continue, so make sure you bring her some extra panties and then let it slide for yesterday. Decide if one day in a pull up is really worth the battle, and you'll probably decide it isn't. *hugs*

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" No I didn't :? And I think you need to stop being such a b***h. I am however going to request that ... [snip!] ... take the diaper off after naptime after I bring her undies in today. I'm going to ask them to do it with my two year old too."

*snort* If you think I'm being a b***h you obviously are a wee bit up tight about things :wink:



It's all about communication and obviously you do not have a good line of communication with your BD. You didn't take underwear to the daycare. What were they supposed to do? That's what you're not getting. It's everyone else's fault when it sort of boils down to you causing this. I think it's sad you had that sort of fight with your 3 year old at 2a. Cause none of this was the child's fault.



There, now call me a b***h :)

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting she nan igans:" It's alright. I understand, it can be frustrating when you're afriad of them regressing. I think sometimes ... [snip!] ... it slide for yesterday. Decide if one day in a pull up is really worth the battle, and you'll probably decide it isn't. *hugs*"


Thanks hun ((hugs))

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" And I don't know about y'alls kids but my Son knows he doesn't pee on himself regardless of what he's ... [snip!] ... I'd think only babies (like under 2) would be that easily confused but not a 3+ year old child who has been pt'd for a while."


That's a pretty generalized statement. :? DS was PT'd at 3 and at 3 1/2 completely regressed overnight. I had to start from square one and it took a couple of months. Some kids ARE easily confused, especially when one parent encourages what another forbids.



OP I understand your aggravation but if you draw attention to the pull-up,she's going to want to wear them. Especially since your BD is thrilled about it, which I don't understand.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Supafly★:" That's a pretty generalized statement. :? DS was PT'd at 3 and at 3 1/2 completely regressed overnight. ... [snip!] ... to the pull-up,she's going to want to wear them. Especially since your BD is thrilled about it, which I don't understand. "

You must have missed my last sentence about being pt'd for a while. To most people "a while" means way more than 6 months.

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Supafly★:" That's a pretty generalized statement. :? DS was PT'd at 3 and at 3 1/2 completely regressed overnight. ... [snip!] ... to the pull-up,she's going to want to wear them. Especially since your BD is thrilled about it, which I don't understand. "


I don't think he was persay thrilled about it but he does tend to be lazy so I'm sure he didn't even think about taking it off.
I really tried to not make it a big deal. She said she had to go pee so I walked her over to the potty and when she was sitting there I pulled them the rest of the way off.
She usually sleeps completely naked so I figured it wouldn't be a big deal to her but she screamed and kept asking for her diaper.
After I let her come lay down with me for a little while she finally calmed down some. And eventually fell asleep. I'm just going to talk to the daycare about it. They seem really cool and I'm sure they will be ok with not putting one back on her.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Supafly★:" That's a pretty generalized statement. :? DS was PT'd at 3 and at 3 1/2 completely regressed overnight. ... [snip!] ... to the pull-up,she's going to want to wear them. Especially since your BD is thrilled about it, which I don't understand. "


I think "thrilled" was him takling about her liking to wear them. They probably were like cool fancy panties (since most have cool characters and colors on them).

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
22nd May '13

I personally think that it was blown out of proportion. The daycare did what they thought was best under the circumstances, you aggression should have been taken out on them instead of your 3 year old who doesn't know any better. She did what she was told by the people who are in charge of watching her. If it causes her to "regress" then oh well, you deal with it the best you can, simple as that.