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Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
22nd May '13

If they put her in a pull up... honestly it's your own fault because you didnt provide a change of clothes. They did what they had to do. What did you expect them to do, let your kid go commando? And I think your kid getting a decent night of sleep is more important than YOUR need for your child to wear panties.

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I personally think that it was blown out of proportion. The daycare did what they thought was best under ... [snip!] ... are in charge of watching her. If it causes her to "regress" then oh well, you deal with it the best you can, simple as that."


Where did you see that I took any aggression out on anyone? :?
I didn't get mad at anyone and was very quiet and explained (as best you can to a 3 year old) why she was to old for a pull-up.
She got over and now I'm over it.

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13

So I just picked up the girls and found out that it was a new teacher and she got the pull-up from another girls cubby. :) I took in three pairs of undies and asked that if she was to run out to just let her go comando since she does it at home all the time. :lol:
And Reilly hasn't asked about the "diaper" since last night before she fell asleep with me :)
Everything is all good now.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" Where did you see that I took any aggression out on anyone? :? I didn't get mad at anyone and was very ... [snip!] ... very quiet and explained (as best you can to a 3 year old) why she was to old for a pull-up. She got over and now I'm over it."

Well.... you interupted your child's sleep because you wanted to fight with her about a pull up.... :?

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Sloth.:" Well.... you interupted your child's sleep because you wanted to fight with her about a pull up.... :?"


No, she woke up and called me into her room to let me know she had to go pee..

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" So I just picked up the girls and found out that it was a new teacher and she got the pull-up from another ... [snip!] ... :lol: And Reilly hasn't asked about the "diaper" since last night before she fell asleep with me :) Everything is all good now."

I can't believe they agreed to "going commando" being OK. I'm not sure of the legalities where you are but I'm certain (in some States) the children have to have some sort of undergarment on.



That being if your daycare follows state codes and regulations.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Sloth.:" If they put her in a pull up... honestly it's your own fault because you didnt provide a change of clothes. ... [snip!] ... commando? And I think your kid getting a decent night of sleep is more important than YOUR need for your child to wear panties."


Uh oh... she's going to call you a b***h for that.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" I can't believe they agreed to "going commando" being OK. I'm not sure of the legalities where you are ... [snip!] ... the children have to have some sort of undergarment on. That being if your daycare follows state codes and regulations."


I found this odd as well...

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Just Ames:" I can't believe they agreed to "going commando" being OK. I'm not sure of the legalities where you are ... [snip!] ... the children have to have some sort of undergarment on. That being if your daycare follows state codes and regulations."


The last daycare they went to didn't care either. Hell the one before that didn't care either. This was the first accident she's had since she was first potty training so I really doubt it will come up very often if at all, especially if we keep diapers/pull-ups off of her.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" No, she woke up and called me into her room to let me know she had to go pee.."



That's not what you said though. "So as soon as I saw it I took it off.
She flipped the f**k out. Screaming at 2am. So I picked her up and put her on her potty and tried to explain to her (through the screaming) that only babies wear diapers and big girls go potty on the big girl potty.
Well she continued to scream
"

Even then, why did you pick 2 am to continue to tell her she would wear panties? Just let her say what she wants, then talk about it in the morning when you're both more rational and had a good night's sleep. Whatever though. It's your kid. shrug.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Sloth.:" That's not what you said though. "So as soon as I saw it I took it off. She flipped the f**k out. ... [snip!] ... about it in the morning when you're both more rational and had a good night's sleep. Whatever though. It's your kid. shrug."


Jesus, I have palpitations even looking at this. When my kids are awake in the middle of the night, all I want to do is get them back to sleep. No arguments from me. Do what you want, but go the f*** to sleep... :shock: :oops:

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Jesus, I have palpitations even looking at this. When my kids are awake in the middle of the night, ... [snip!] ... all I want to do is get them back to sleep. No arguments from me. Do what you want, but go the f*** to sleep... :shock: :oops:"


:!: No one is going to have a rational conversation with a 3 year old at 2 am. Especially while they are screaming.

Belle De Jour Due October 8; 2 kids; Kentucky 17570 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Sloth.:" That's not what you said though. "So as soon as I saw it I took it off. She flipped the f**k out. ... [snip!] ... about it in the morning when you're both more rational and had a good night's sleep. Whatever though. It's your kid. shrug."


Yes, and right before what you quoted says that she woke up on her own :?
It's not like I ripped them off of her I just slipped them the rest of the way off while she was going pee :?
You guys keep saying I blew this out of proportion but I'm pretty sure that's what you are doing now. :roll:

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" Yes, and right before what you quoted says that she woke up on her own :? It's not like I ripped them ... [snip!] ... was going pee :? You guys keep saying I blew this out of proportion but I'm pretty sure that's what you are doing now. :roll:"


Regardless of how she woke up.... you still argued with her and made her cry at 2 am. That's not worth it over a pull up. And going commando for a 3 year old is unsanitary and probably uncomfortable for your child.

Maybe I am blowing it out of proportion. Who cares. I think you made few bad decisions.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
22nd May '13
Quoting Man. Bear. Sloth.:" Regardless of how she woke up.... you still argued with her and made her cry at 2 am. That's not worth ... [snip!] ... uncomfortable for your child. Maybe I am blowing it out of proportion. Who cares. I think you made few bad decisions."

:!: How incredibly sad. Kid likely doesn't even know what she did wrong because yes, a child feels they've done wrong when you're in their face using a "tone".