♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Mama Rice:" Okay....the first post I was nice. Now I feel like you need blunt, brutal honesty. 3 months is not a ... [snip!] ... tells his wife about your pregnancy. You are pushing a commitment that will most likely back fire and ruin your relationship."


I need to stay with him until I get on my feet. I will be graduating nursing school, and making double what I do now, and I won't have to worry about these things. But Im not going to put a newborn baby in daycare and busting my ass for min wage when the father makes good money and owns his house. how much sense does that make? Its the f**king cats. Aside from drain-o... I have no clue what to do about it. I hate cats but I hate the thought of leaving my baby even more.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
24th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" No sorry actually I'm not a "hoe" You're a pathetic and rude p***e o* s**t, that's for sure."</blockquote>
You got knocked up by some dude you've been dating for three months who's still married, already cheated on him, and now expect him to change his life and house and finances to support your ass because you're having his(?) baby and he is obviously trying to duck the f**k out while he still can by refusing to compromise, or introduce you to his child.



Pretty sure that is the definition of a solid stage four clingy hoe.

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥crazybitch:</b>" No sorry actually I'm not a "hoe" ... [snip!] ... refusing to compromise, or introduce you to his child. Pretty sure that is the definition of a solid stage four clingy hoe."



He's not refusing to introuduce me to his kid. The mother is, and he doesn't wanna piss her off considering theres no custody agreement.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
24th May '13

First, he's not told his ex that you two are even together, much less that you're pregnant. You cheated on him with your ex. And you wonder why he won't introduce you to his daughter for 3 more months. Secondly, if you DID move in, since you both have GIRLS, they could SHARE a room, and you and he could keep the baby in your room for a while. Lastly, if he is not going around acknowledging the relationship, even to his ex, then he's NOT committed. He's been using you as a "f*** buddy" for three months, and you just happened to get pregnant, and now he's trying to take some responsibility.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
24th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" I need to stay with him until I get on my feet. I will be graduating nursing school, and making double ... [snip!] ... Aside from drain-o... I have no clue what to do about it. I hate cats but I hate the thought of leaving my baby even more."


Did you not know he had miscellaneous amounts of cats before you were sleeping with him? :lol: Seriously... a hoarding cat man is a dealbreaker for me.




homg.

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
24th May '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" First, he's not told his ex that you two are even together, much less that you're pregnant. You cheated ... [snip!] ... as a "f*** buddy" for three months, and you just happened to get pregnant, and now he's trying to take some responsibility. "


Where are you getting your f**king "facts"
She does know we are together.'
And she does know I'm pregnant.
THey decided and I agree it's too soon to tell his DAUGHTER yet.
I wanna be able to meet her first then him tell her.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
24th May '13

I have a strange hunch that this guy is in his 40's while OP is barely older than 18.

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
24th May '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Did you not know he had miscellaneous amounts of cats before you were sleeping with him? :lol: Seriously... a hoarding cat man is a dealbreaker for me. homg."


Yeah and we also talked about living together someday, just casually talking and he said he would get rid of all the cats except the one favorite that he nursed back to health after getting hit by a car that he named jason junior:roll:
Now that it's come down to it, he doesn't wanna leave his life
ANd i understand it's all too much to grasp right now,
he doesn't wanna leave eveerything he knows and has for a relationship thats on the rocks already. So basically I want him to get rid of some of the cats, maybe 4 would be better.. but 8 with a newborn.. hell no. it's not fair to the BABY. NOt me, but the BABY

♥crazybitch 1 child; 5550 posts
24th May '13
Quoting Supafly★:" I have a strange hunch that this guy is in his 40's while OP is barely older than 18. "



H'es 33 and im 22

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53489 posts
24th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" I'm not quitting my job, but where I work, if I can't work, someone else will take my position and that will be that. "


GET ANOTHER JOB.

*B & D Mommy* 2 kids; Illinois 15809 posts
24th May '13

Okay so...I'm trying to skip the drama. OP when are you due?

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
24th May '13

like his ex does not know I'm pregnant,



YOU posted that 5 days ago. You also said your pregnancy was basically hush-hush.

KristaAnne 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ, VT, United States 19461 posts
status 24th May '13
Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Okay so...I'm trying to skip the drama. OP when are you due? "



she's only 5 weeks pregnant

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
24th May '13
Quoting ♥crazybitch:" Yeah and we also talked about living together someday, just casually talking and he said he would get ... [snip!] ... of some of the cats, maybe 4 would be better.. but 8 with a newborn.. hell no. it's not fair to the BABY. NOt me, but the BABY"


I get it... but he didn't choose to have a baby. And I get that the baby isn't asking to be born. He's also not begging you to move in, so you can either make it work on your own... or get past the cats.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
24th May '13

You're missing the point.



Your relationship sucks.



He shouldn't get rid of any of his cats for you because you shouldn't move in with him because really you shouldn't even be together because you already cheated on him and this relationship has zero chance of lasting, and his WIFE knows this which is why she doesn't want you to meet her daughter. How is this even going over your head??