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It hurts, a lot... MissMommy ♥ Due November 18; Wisconsin 315 posts
25th May '13

My ex boyfriend (baby's father) has another child from a previous relationship.



His family is VERY close with her, even though she landed herself in jail for beating my ex when they were together. They always post things on her FB about how they miss & love her and her son (they live 6 hours away) and always like her statuses even when they're not about the baby. Think they could take one second to message me & ask how the pregnancy is going? HELL no. They don't care. It's like I don't even exist to them anymore. It really hurts. This baby in my tummy is just as much their flesh and blood as his firstborn is... :cry:



Then his mom had the audacity to tell him she thinks I'm annoying and immature? Um hello! I've NEVER been put in jail, never had a ticket, I didn't even have a detention in high school & she thinks I'm immature? I've got my head on straight and supported her son for 3 months when he didn't have a job, paid for everything... yet I'm the immature one? Ugh!



Sorry -rant over. It's just been bothering me a lot lately.

Nomo 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
25th May '13

I'm sorry Hun :( that would bother me too

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
25th May '13

What do you want them to do? Hover over your belly and send love notes to your fetus? Your baby's not even born yet. Chill out.

Faye's Mama 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 4559 posts
25th May '13
Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" What do you want them to do? Hover over your belly and send love notes to your fetus? Your baby's not even born yet. Chill out."


:!:

MissMommy ♥ Due November 18; Wisconsin 315 posts
25th May '13
Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" What do you want them to do? Hover over your belly and send love notes to your fetus? Your baby's not even born yet. Chill out."

I would like for them to act like I exist. They're pissed that this baby is coming & I hate it. If they don't wanna be a part of the pregnancy and want to say crap about me while I'm pregnant how are they going to act when the baby's born?

Munchkin Lover 2 kids; California 135 posts
25th May '13


Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" What do you want them to do? Hover over your belly and send love notes to your fetus? Your baby's not even born yet. Chill out."



This .. maybe it will be different when the baby is born

Nikkie Beee Due January 29; 2 kids; Victorville, California 3968 posts
25th May '13

I would ignore all of it. There is nothing you can do to change it, so ignore it. Just worry about you and your baby to be.

Munchkin Lover 2 kids; California 135 posts
25th May '13
Quoting MissMommy ♥:" I would like for them to act like I exist. They're pissed that this baby is coming & I hate it. If ... [snip!] ... be a part of the pregnancy and want to say crap about me while I'm pregnant how are they going to act when the baby's born?"

ur only 14 weeks pregnant , you still have so long to go that's a lot of time for them to change their mind , we didn't even tell my SO's family I was pregnant till about 20weeks