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I can't do it anymore Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
26th May '13

I'm so tired. I want to throw up. I just want the abuse to stop. This is why I didn't want her in my life. I just can't handle dealing with her anymore. She's driven me to the brink countless times.



How do you deal with someone who wants you either under their thumb or dead by your own hand?

Allissa Specht 35 kids; Essexville, Michigan 5437 posts
26th May '13

You don't. Cut them out. They're not worth it.

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 19254 posts
26th May '13

cut them out.




No one is worth that, we only have so many years. saying no is not a bad thing.

♥Love♥ TTC since Jun 2013; 2 angel babies; California 6372 posts
26th May '13
Quoting Allissa Specht:" You don't. Cut them out. They're not worth it."

:!:
We did this with everyone biologically related to SO. Best decision ever.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
26th May '13

She won't stop. She sends me mail, today it was a Mother's Day card. She sends messages through other family members. They don't understand what's goin on. They think I'm crazy, cruel, they don't believe me. She's evil. Not stupid evil, or obvious evil. Smart calculating get under your skin and make you want to claw your own eyes out evil.



Cops around here are shit, I couldn't get a restraining order on what she sends me. It looks nice and thoughtful. That's how she does everything. From the outside, it looks like she's being sweet. But it's nonsense. Like literal, "who the hell is this even for? I don't know what you're talking about" nonsense.

Allissa Specht 35 kids; Essexville, Michigan 5437 posts
26th May '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" She won't stop. She sends me mail, today it was a Mother's Day card. She sends messages through other ... [snip!] ... being sweet. But it's nonsense. Like literal, "who the hell is this even for? I don't know what you're talking about" nonsense."


Doesn't matter if it is nice, if you tell them to stop and they don't it is still harassment. I'd contact the state police instead.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
26th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Allissa Specht:</b>" Doesn't matter if it is nice, if you tell them to stop and they don't it is still harassment. I'd contact the state police instead."</blockquote>



I just want it to stop so I can breathe again.
They'll think I'm trying to ruin her life. I'll be cut off from everyone again.
She stole my baby and they blamed me for it. I want to puke. I just want it to stop.



I don't understand what I did. I'm sorry he was my dad. I didn't choose him. But she cut ties with him and didn't want to have kids anymore.



She's almost succeeded before.

♥Love♥ TTC since Jun 2013; 2 angel babies; California 6372 posts
26th May '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" She won't stop. She sends me mail, today it was a Mother's Day card. She sends messages through other ... [snip!] ... being sweet. But it's nonsense. Like literal, "who the hell is this even for? I don't know what you're talking about" nonsense."

If your other family members cant understand what is going on, I personally would cut them out too if it were me. Ignore everything she does, throw all the mail away.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
26th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Love♥:</b>" If your other family members cant understand what is going on, I personally would cut them out too if it were me. Ignore everything she does, throw all the mail away."</blockquote>




I don't blame them. She's made me out to be the nutjob, convince them I was strung out on heroin, despite me providing UA proof that I wasn't... They don't think emotional abuse is real. They think I'm nuts, because she doesn't seem crazy and my story is so crazy out there, especially if you met her. Inconsistencies with her story? Doesn't matter. Still not as far fetched as what really happened.