I just found out one of my really good friends from back in Colorado (where I grew up) is having a cancer scare. The doctors think it's inflammatory breast cancer, she has a mammogram on Tuesday to find. She didn't want to "bother" me with it since I've been having a lot going on too.
So one top of feeling like a shitty friend I'm terrified to lose a person who was such a huge part of my teenage years. She's not even 30 and has five kids who need her.
Please pray :(
you're not a bad friend!! you asking for prayer is proof. i will keep her in my prayers. <3
You are not a bad friend!!! It's a typical feeling, guilt/blame, when something like this occurs. Just know that whether you had things going on in your life or not, she would still have this scare. Being there for her is all you can do at the moment, so don't beat yourself up!
She and her family are in my thoughts and prayers. <3