You guys should watch "So this is 40" together...its like wow lol a lot of it made us feel like it was our relationship....and we agreed after it last night to try and get that spark back and do better.
<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SavageDarling:</b>" My husband and I have been together almost ... [snip!] ... think since SO and I were so young and never really dated other people or something maybe we just don't know what we want? Idk"</blockquote>
It's not my first serious relationship or his. I was with my high school boyfriend for four years and that was a really intense relationship. But DH and I did get together pretty young. I was 19 when we started dating and he was 22 and we got pregnant about 5 months into the relationship.
I mean don't get me wrong, there are days when I want to smother him in his sleep or he feels like more of a business partner than a lover, And we certainly have habits that drive one another NUTS. For instance, he interrupts ALL THE TIME. When ever he gets really into a conversation or debate he makes it completely impossible to fit a word in edgewise. It's inufuriating. But no matter how irritating he is being I always prefer his presence over his absence and every time he touches the small of my back or hold my face when we kiss I still feel like my knees are made of jello.
I think you should definitely talk to your SO about how you're feeling. If one of you are unsatisfied in the relationship it's both of your jobs to do what needs to be done to change that.