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Gone. Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5472 posts
27th May '13

Thank you, ladies.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
27th May '13

Maybe he's waiting for you to say it!

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5472 posts
27th May '13
Quoting tay. ☮:" Maybe he's waiting for you to say it!"


I honestly think he is! That's why I really want him to.

user banned 3 kids; Portland, Michigan 15675 posts
27th May '13

Just say it and see what he says?

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
27th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ pinkman:</b>" I honestly think he is! That's why I really want him to."</blockquote>




If you love him, just tell him. :)

Samantha Lembo TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; Bradenton, Florida 751 posts
27th May '13

SO didn't say it to me first and I was too afraid until we'd been together over a year. When I did say I made him promise first not to get freaked out or mad and that I was embarrassed to see it. Afterward he just "I know. I've loved you, too." Lol And I was panicking for months. Men are like that.

klov318 Due November 8; 1 child; New York 18 posts
27th May '13
Quoting ♥ pinkman:" SO and I have been together for like eight, almost nine months and neither of us has said "I love you" ... [snip!] ... of not hearing it back. That would break my heart I guess I just need some advice. I wish I could just slyly bring it up."


some men express love in thier actions
instead of words and also if you love him don't be afraid to say it even if you just text him you love him at first and see where it goes from there.

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5472 posts
27th May '13
Quoting tay. ☮:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ pinkman:</b>" I honestly think he is! That's why I really want him to."</blockquote> If you love him, just tell him. :)"


Sometimes I just feel like I should. He's been going through a lot lately. I always think if something terrible happens and I would never have gotten to say it, I would never live it down.

The ℰffin' D! 2 kids; New York 26316 posts
27th May '13

Not everyone falls in love at the same time.... but if you say it first and he doesn't say it right away, at least he knows that you feel that way. :D



But maybe he's waiting for you to make the first move.
I hate that part about relationships. The who says it first thing.

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5472 posts
27th May '13
Quoting The ℰffin' D!
Samantha Lembo TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; Bradenton, Florida 751 posts
27th May '13
Quoting klov318:" some men express love in thier actions instead of words and also if you love him don't be afraid to say it even if you just text him you love him at first and see where it goes from there."


That's how mine was- little stuff like fixing my clothes or going to Subway for lunch w/ me instead of McD's (Why does he like that crap-barf!) I didn't realize it until he gave me the silent treatment when he thought I didn't kiss him goodbye one morning. Then I knew, but I was still nervous.

DifferentDay Due June 2; 34 kids; Tennessee 3473 posts
27th May '13

If u feel it say it. I said it to hubby's voicemail first. I was really drunk (1st time ever drinking) and at the end it just slipped out like how u say "bye, I love you". I didn't realize I said it til my cousin punched my arm. It wasn't even 2 wks into dating. I was gonna call back and try to take it back but realized I did love him. It was there from the beginning. He has said he listened to that vm, heard that, dropped his phone n then listened to the msg over n over again. Next night we met up n he said it back to me :)

ashleeoh Due August 10 (girl); 1 child; Tucson, Arizona 2598 posts
27th May '13

I was the same way. I tried to work myself up to saying it first,his actions showed he loved me but I was scared I was wrong. Then after 7 months he wrote it in my valentines day card. I honestly think he was scared to say it too so he wrote it down.

Pinkman 1 child; Melbourne, VC, Australia 5472 posts
27th May '13
Quoting ashleeoh:" I was the same way. I tried to work myself up to saying it first,his actions showed he loved me but I ... [snip!] ... Then after 7 months he wrote it in my valentines day card. I honestly think he was scared to say it too so he wrote it down."


I think in my heart that he really does love me. I talk to a close friend about it and she's always like I KNOW HE LOVES YOU. I just want him to say it! UGH.

ashleeoh Due August 10 (girl); 1 child; Tucson, Arizona 2598 posts
27th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ pinkman:</b>" I think in my heart that he really does love me. I talk to a close friend about it and she's always like I KNOW HE LOVES YOU. I just want him to say it! UGH."</blockquote>




Yeah I was much too chicken shit. I would work myself up and be like okay tonight you will say it, and then I wouldn't. And I swear when I started obsessing about it everyone on tv was saying I love you to their SOs for the first time in a much shorter relationship, I was getting so annoyed haha.