I am so sick of the bullshit lies! he twists everything around to where it is my fault. yes some is BUT NOT EVERY LITTLE DAMN THING!! I have no family i can fucking talk to about it because he was so kind as to tell my side taking mother that im the whole problem! Guess what asshole you left your facebook opened! and IM not the only person who has FAULT is what is going on!:(
All he tells me is IDK or I dont care i need his help he dosent care! I can tell him things weeks in advanced and he will procrastinate until its too late. IE a week ago i asked him to help me find the means to get phone minuets for our only pre payed phone. . . he waited until the last day to try to do anything and now i am having panic attacks about having no car (because he has it during the day) and now NO phone! what if i have an emergency and have to call for help? if i get hurt How the hell am i going to get a hold of someone to watch my two LOs? :(
I get bad panic attacks! there has been more than one occasion that i have ended up in the hospital because i couldnt control my breathing! and on top of that i have asthma! and he dosent care! we got in a big fight, and ill i want is my husband to act like he cares for once! i want to talk to someone but my mom took his side as always. Am i so wrong for wanting my husband to Care?
:( He is sleeping in our room and im out in the living room, I cant be in a bed with someone who is more of a stranger than a friend! its 11:30 and im tired but no matter how i try i cant sleep i just keep crying... what should i do.
What was so wrong about facebook?
I think your hormones are getting the best of you right now to be honest. If you had an emergency you can still call 911 from a disconnected phone. Pick your battles Hun. Was this really worth fighting over?
How often do you feel this way?
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" How often do you feel this way?"
Everyday he be littles me, makes me feel like im good for nothing but taking care of our babies and cleaning. I am a young mom, and a stay at home mom. Its everyday that he tells me he doesnt care, he wont acctually talk to me unless there is an argument! IDK what to do!
Quoting mylittlebaby:" Everyday he be littles me, makes me feel like im good for nothing but taking care of our babies and ... [snip!] ... mom. Its everyday that he tells me he doesnt care, he wont acctually talk to me unless there is an argument! IDK what to do!"
Why do you stay with him?
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" Why do you stay with him?"
Because i really do love him. I dont pretend. i do everything i can to make him happy and it never seems to be enough. Ive told him that if he cant stop treating me badly then i would leave and take the boys, but he said that I wouldnt be able to take my kids, he would be sure to keep them!
Im only 20 and ive never had a job(not for lack of trying) and i know he is right.
I would leave him.
There are so many people out there that will treat you like a human being.
<blockquote><b>Quoting mylittlebaby:</b>" Because i really do love him. I dont pretend. i do everything i can to make him happy and it never seems ... [snip!] ... my kids, he would be sure to keep them! Im only 20 and ive never had a job(not for lack of trying) and i know he is right."</blockquote>
No he's not right. Just because you don't have a job doesn't mean he will get them. There are lots of government programs to help single mothers.