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user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
29th May '13

Cant you just go to court and file paper work and they will just terminate his rights?



Thats all I did. But my dd's bio dad was there atthe court. I asked for CS and aksed for his rights to be terminated and they did just that.



They took his right away to her and ordered CS.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
29th May '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Cant you just go to court and file paper work and they will just terminate his rights? Thats all I did. ... [snip!] ... for CS and aksed for his rights to be terminated and they did just that. They took his right away to her and ordered CS."


They terminated his rights and ordered CS? That is odd.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
29th May '13
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" They terminated his rights and ordered CS? That is odd."



Why is that odd? That is very normal isnt it? Well it is here anyways. lol

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
29th May '13
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" They terminated his rights and ordered CS? That is odd."


No it's not odd. In most states even if your rights are taken away or you sign them over you are still financially responsible for that child and can still be ordered to pay CS. Unless there is a legal agreement wrote up between the parents that says something to the effect of "I sign over my rights as long as you don't come after me for child support"

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
29th May '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" No it's not odd. In most states even if your rights are taken away or you sign them over you are still ... [snip!] ... the parents that says something to the effect of "I sign over my rights as long as you don't come after me for child support" "



Thats what I thought. lol




Not like he ever paid it anyways, but he will owe me like 8 yrs back pay once my file goes through. :)

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
29th May '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Why is that odd? That is very normal isnt it? Well it is here anyways. lol"


I am not in disbelief of what you are saying. I was told differently when I talked to my attorney a couple of years ago about terminating my sons bio fathers rights. My attorney said that generally a judge prefers that a step parent adopt the child because once his rights are terminated he is not legally financially responsible for the child. The courts prefer that the child have a beneficiary other than the mother.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
29th May '13
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" I am not in disbelief of what you are saying. I was told differently when I talked to my attorney a ... [snip!] ... not legally financially responsible for the child. The courts prefer that the child have a beneficiary other than the mother."


I guess its different everywhere

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
29th May '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" I guess its different everywhere"


True. :D

Karren 1 child; Liverpool, United Kingdom 378 posts
30th May '13

It's true, it depends on where you live I imagine.



My ex thought by quitting his job it would mean he would be off the hook for CS, he couldn't have been more wrong, he's gotten himself into a right mess now.