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jasin's mommy 1 child; Japan 19 posts
29th May '13
Quoting A mother & wife:" Alot of guys hide things like that because they dont want to have to tell their lady that they watch ... [snip!] ... satisfy him. But rather bitching to him over it. Let him watch it. he will get more comfortable to share things like that. "


you're right and i know it... i just can't help over thinking things and making more of it then what it is.... i consider myself a very open and fun partner and he usually is too i think unless it gets more frequent, or starts interfering in our sex life i'm just going to let it be

Seneca Thurman Due November 19; 1 child; Nashville, Tennessee 587 posts
29th May '13

Just asking but isn't looking at porn better than getting p***y from someone else? My hubby reads and watches it and it doesn't both me, usually I end up watching it with him.

jasin's mommy 1 child; Japan 19 posts
29th May '13
Quoting Seneca Thurman:" Just asking but isn't looking at porn better than getting p***y from someone else? My hubby reads and watches it and it doesn't both me, usually I end up watching it with him. "


yes it's a lot better and i do watch it with him i just don't liek the fact that he's hiding it from me for no real reason

LoveMyBoo Japan 2 posts
29th May '13

If you don't talk to him, it's going to eat you up inside!! Talk to him.

Seneca Thurman Due November 19; 1 child; Nashville, Tennessee 587 posts
29th May '13
Quoting jasin's mommy:" yes it's a lot better and i do watch it with him i just don't liek the fact that he's hiding it from me for no real reason"

I think we all need our private moments to be with ourselves. Idk if anyone else feels this way, but sometimes when I masturbate to porn, I don't tell my hubby just because it was me time. I wouldn't worry about it

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
29th May '13
Quoting jasin's mommy:" you're right and i know it... i just can't help over thinking things and making more of it then what ... [snip!] ... and he usually is too i think unless it gets more frequent, or starts interfering in our sex life i'm just going to let it be"


I used to HATE when hubs would save pictures of girls on cars in short skanky outfits or something like that on his phone or when he would watch porn. But if I stopped him he would either hide and do it or go off and find someone that likes that stuff. So I really dont pay it mind now.
I even ask to watch it with him during sex. Try that he might actually really enjoy it.



just be thankful its on a phone and not in real life.

xocass . 1 child; Littleton, Colorado 31 posts
29th May '13

Ha ha ha ha I'm in your same boat. He watches it, denies it, I'm a dumb insecure overly jealous and clingy little girl who snoops thru his phone when I KNOW I'm going to find something I don't like. And then we fight out of control. I guess it's a guy thing. The passed week or so I've been doing my best to not give a shit but you probably know how that goes... It's uncontrollable to us girls that we get so hurt and I think if your man or husband KNOWS it hurts us then he should EASILY be able to stop. I don't think you are in the wrong. He knows you don't like it and he lies and continues to do it. Good luck mama

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
30th May '13
Quoting xocass .:" Ha ha ha ha I'm in your same boat. He watches it, denies it, I'm a dumb insecure overly jealous and clingy ... [snip!] ... able to stop. I don't think you are in the wrong. He knows you don't like it and he lies and continues to do it. Good luck mama"


It's not uncontrollable when you think of the bigger picture. Would you rather him have sex with someone in real life or just watch it on his phone of some stranger?
He is a man. That is what I failed to realize when my hubs used to watch it. No matter the bitching I did he was still going to do it regardless. I stopped bitching and he hasnt done it so much. I like to shop. So he gives me money to shop and I dont b***h that he watches porn. its a compromise.

jasin's mommy 1 child; Japan 19 posts
30th May '13
Quoting xocass .:" Ha ha ha ha I'm in your same boat. He watches it, denies it, I'm a dumb insecure overly jealous and clingy ... [snip!] ... able to stop. I don't think you are in the wrong. He knows you don't like it and he lies and continues to do it. Good luck mama"


it's not even that i don't like it it has never been an issue before it's just a problem that he feels the need to all of a sudden lie and hide it.... if we never had sex i would understand but we have sex more than 90% of america does i'm sure lol so it jus baffles me that he could even need to get off anymore he already says i "suck the life out of him" lol

Proginoskes II 3 kids; North Carolina 1295 posts
30th May '13

This might sound a little crazy to some, but not all guys watch porn just so they masturbate.
My boyfriend looks at really really out there porn [to me, anyway], just for the hell of it. He doesn't really get anything out of it, he thinks it's funny. The stuff he actually likes, and will *ahem* use, he downloads it. It's on the computer and he tries to get me to watch it, lol, even though we like different things most of the time. Hell, sometimes I'll go looking for funny porn when I'm bored and the kids are asleep. :lol:

xocass . 1 child; Littleton, Colorado 31 posts
31st May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" It's not uncontrollable when you think of the bigger picture. Would you rather him have sex with someone ... [snip!] ... hasnt done it so much. I like to shop. So he gives me money to shop and I dont b***h that he watches porn. its a compromise. "</blockquote>



You're right. The passed few days I haven't looked thru his phone or questioned him about shit. I've been giving him space and I feel like he's nt doing it as much.. Idk for sure but I actually feel okay. Im proud f myself and I know it had alot to do with posts like this and getting that tough love from other mamas. Thanks girls

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
31st May '13
Quoting xocass .:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" It's not uncontrollable when you think ... [snip!] ... Im proud f myself and I know it had alot to do with posts like this and getting that tough love from other mamas. Thanks girls"


:)
You will be so relieved not having to worry about it. Just leave it up to him to stop or do it less.
But the more you harp the more he will want to do it just because.
But Im happy for you.

JoSe_AndresMaMa11 Due November 24; 1 child; Bellingham, Washington 60 posts
5th Jun '13

I dont underStanz why other women trip over porn. Sorry to say but every man uas fantaxies .. Watch it wit em lol;)

A mother & wife 2 kids; Pennsylvania 4817 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting JoSe_AndresMaMa11:" I dont underStanz why other women trip over porn. Sorry to say but every man uas fantaxies .. Watch it wit em lol;)"


*Understands
** uas not sure what that is
*** fantasies
**** with
*****him



some woman are insecure about their bodies and it makes them insecure.

JoSe_AndresMaMa11 Due November 24; 1 child; Bellingham, Washington 60 posts
5th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A mother & wife:</b>" *Understands ** uas not sure what that is *** fantasies **** with *****him some woman are insecure about their bodies and it makes them insecure. "</blockquote>



This is what bugs me about this site..
People who have nothing else to do but correct people?