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Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
30th May '13

Bandaid babies never work. Pregnancy and parenting only makes more stress.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" Bandaid babies never work. Pregnancy and parenting only makes more stress."


oh i know that and he knows that. its an excuse trying to prove he had these feelings b4 his new co-worker friend im not blind or stupid but he thinks i am

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" he said that he has been having these feelings for a long time and didnt want to tell me. the fucked ... [snip!] ... that now after the fact when b4 it was he wanted one bc im an amazing mom and he loves me so much. i think he is full of shit. "


Wow. It all sounds like bullshit. He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. Maybe he's just looking at the good side of her. She's a nurse. She has a big home. Maybe she's funny. He has no ties with her. It sucks that he tricked you into getting pregnant like that.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Now and Forever:" Wow. It all sounds like bullshit. He sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. Maybe he's just looking ... [snip!] ... She has a big home. Maybe she's funny. He has no ties with her. It sucks that he tricked you into getting pregnant like that. "


yeah i know. i even told him i didnt want to get pregnant for another year so i could lose weight.. well im losing it now. ive lost about 40 lbs from the stress and sickness this is causing me but does he change his mind? nope

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" yeah i know. i even told him i didnt want to get pregnant for another year so i could lose weight.. ... [snip!] ... well im losing it now. ive lost about 40 lbs from the stress and sickness this is causing me but does he change his mind? nope"


I'm sorry. :cry: What do you think you'll end up doing? Moving out? I lost a lot of weight when DH and I broke up but you're pregnant so it might not be healthy. Have you talked to anyone personally about this situation?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Now and Forever:" I'm sorry. :cry: What do you think you'll end up doing? Moving out? I lost a lot of weight when DH and ... [snip!] ... DH and I broke up but you're pregnant so it might not be healthy. Have you talked to anyone personally about this situation? "


i have a bg mom friend that i spoke to about it for 4 hours the other night on the phone. really makes me love this site and the women on it lol.

Tiffany Knickerbocker 19 kids; Indiana 519 posts
30th May '13

Girl its hard to walk away like that when your pregnant, but it can be done. When I filed for divorce from my ex husband I had a 7 month old 2 1/2 months pregnant and jobless. Only thing is I was stupid and let him sweet talk me into moving back in and when I was in labor with my daughter he was on the phone with his "friend" from work planning their date for that night. We have now been divorced for almost 5 years and my daughter just turned five a few months ago and I could not be happier with how my life has turned out. :) I know its hard now but it will get better for you :)

deletedaccount12234 1 child; Houston, Texas 11 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" How do i move on as painlessly as possible? I plan on applying for section 8 as soon as they call me ... [snip!] ... it. at least he isnt sleeping with me anymore so i dont have to worry about herpes! am i being unfair to want to move out asap?"


You are not being unfair at all. Why would you want to be living in such an uncomfortable environment. If he does not want to be with you then he should not have a problem with you moving out with your child. He will just have to get use to yall not being there at all.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
1st Jun '13

he met up with her this morning to talk for over an hour about her problems she has been having. it was at the park near our house and he didnt shower or anything and he needed one so i know nothing went on but he wont tell her he broke up with me so he wouldnt get any ideas bc he doesnt like her that way but he dedicates alot of time to listen to her problems. i honestly think if i was gone he would be crying for me back. ive already told him the first time he sleeps with someone else im gone for good and he would never ever get me back. we have only slept with each other. i broke down and told his dad what was going on and he is pissed! he doesnt let his wife have a guy friend and vise versa unless they are mutual married friends that they are both friends with the husband and wife. he said his son needs to get his head out of his ass. i think if i was gone he would want me back and realize he needed me but im afraid if i leave he will sleep around or like someone else until he realizes what he is missing and i wont get back with him after that even if i wanted too. i know its stupid to say that bc he is going to do what he wants reguardless if i am watching him like a hawk or not.