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user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
30th May '13
penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
30th May '13

Stfu Squirrel District of Columbia 8554 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" "


Fuck that, then. If you feel pretty confident that he's just being an ass, and also confident that his mom is a nice person who didn't necessarily raise him to be abusive like that, AND if you aren't just taking their side because of your own personal issues with him, then by all means, enjoy your visit with them.



Seems like there may be a good reason why you have full custody, anyway. If you're legally 100% in charge, then someone other than you has decided that you are the more responsible parent and better equipped to make decisions regarding your child's life.



I wouldn't want to totally alienate him, only because I wouldn't want him to stop being part of the kid's life just to spite you. But if you aren't too worried about that, then go on with your plans.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36616 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it, too. I just wouldn't even say anything about it, just stick with your plans. If he's gonna be that much of a child, let him."</blockquote>




This. Screw him. Do what you want.

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
30th May '13

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user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
30th May '13
Ƥinkƴ 34 kids; 2 angel babies; Madagascar 23669 posts
30th May '13
Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6487 posts
30th May '13

Honestly, I would just tell both of them that you're not getting involved. I wouldn't make plans to see her. I'd just say that she needs to discuss it with him (or all of you discuss it). But if she's in town, I wouldn't forbid her from seeing him because she's done absolutely nothing wrong and I'm sure Bub would love to know her.



I do agree with what the other mom said about not making a big deal overt it on the Fathers Day deal. It's stupid and pretty on his part, but it is "his"day.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
30th May '13

Ƥinkƴ 34 kids; 2 angel babies; Madagascar 23669 posts
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penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7116 posts
30th May '13

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
31st May '13

Umm if they have done nothing wrong to your little one then screw that! I can't stanf when parents use their children ughh...it's about your kids and if you want to go visit and they want to see their grand kid then go for it,

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
31st May '13

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mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
31st May '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Yeah.. He told me that he won't let his parents see Bub until his mom calls him and meets his "demands". ... [snip!] ... through court stuff, that I was using Bub to get what I wanted, because I was breastfeeding. This is his thought process..."


WTH!! and your AVI WTF LMAO..You do whats best for your child, not whats best for a grown ass man who is acting like a little shit head!

Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6487 posts
31st May '13
Quoting Love Wedge +2:" Yeah.. He told me that he won't let his parents see Bub until his mom calls him and meets his "demands". ... [snip!] ... through court stuff, that I was using Bub to get what I wanted, because I was breastfeeding. This is his thought process..."


He actually said that? What a dimwit...



Screw what I said earlier then. He's pretty much admitted to just using it as a manipulation tactic, and that's completely ridiculous. If she wants to see him, let her. His little feud has nothing to do with you or Bub.