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........................... Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3028 posts
30th May '13

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Mom of 4 Little Boys! 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Hillsboro, Oregon 4635 posts
30th May '13

Yeah, if my DH ever said those things to me or treated me like that I would be so gone. Thats just me though.

Summerfrost 51 kids; Massachusetts 6580 posts
30th May '13

That guy sounds like a real jerk. If my dh said he felt like he wasted 10 years of his life being with me, I would do some serious reevaluating of our relationship.

Mandi Bass 1 child; Minnesota 1060 posts
30th May '13

To be perfectly honest, if SO ever had the balls to say something like that to me... I would wait until DS was asleep for the night and whoop his ass.



I'd also probably leave him. It sounds like all that matters to him is your appearance and that's a waste of time relationship IMO.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
30th May '13

Marriage counseling?

Mrs. Brightside 2 kids; Lichtensteig, Switzerland 11733 posts
30th May '13

I would tell him that of he continues to treat you as of you are worth nothing that he will lose you. And stick to it. He should not talk to you that way!

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2825 posts
30th May '13

What he is saying to you is very disrespectful! You need to have a serious conversation with him concerning these things and if he cannot stop than if it were me I'd leave. If he blows up and sees no wrong in what he's saying than peace out right then and there.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3028 posts
30th May '13

I know he shouldn't and he gets seriously pissed when I get upset about it.



I did suggest marriage counseling before and he laughed at me so I dropped it.



I do think about leaving but he makes me feel worthless for wanting to be happy alone or around someone who doesn't say horrible things to me. He just says to get skinny before you leave because no one would want you like that. Then suggests we stop trying to love each other and stay together for the kids.



I'm.... Just alone and don't know what to do.



And my worst fear is that my daughter is over hearing everything and will one day find a man who treats her this way. :(

Crazy Train 18 kids; Killeen, Texas 1478 posts
30th May '13

What the actual f**k. I would have punched my husband in the nose if he said those things to me. That is not a relationship.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
30th May '13

If dh ever said those things to me he better run and run fast because I would beat the shit out of him and then pack my things and leave. You deserve so much better and you don't want your daughter thinking its ok for a man to treat her like that.

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2825 posts
30th May '13

From everything I've read it was time to go a long time ago. You just have to make up your mind stick to it and don't look back! I'm sorry hon he sounds like a real a*****e!

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3028 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sugarhiccup

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" I know he shouldn't and he gets seriously pissed when I get upset about it. I did suggest marriage ... [snip!] ... do. And my worst fear is that my daughter is over hearing everything and will one day find a man who treats her this way. :("</blockquote>



He makes you feel like shit while you're with him, he makes you feel like shit when you want to leave. You should leave! Show your daughter that it is not okay to stay with a man that would treat his wife like that.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3028 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" I know he shouldn't and he gets seriously pissed ... [snip!] ... want to leave. You should leave! Show your daughter that it is not okay to stay with a man that would treat his wife like that."</blockquote>



Honestly I'm really worried about my kids.
I don't want to lose them.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" ... [snip!] ... would treat his wife like that."</blockquote> Honestly I'm really worried about my kids. I don't want to lose them."</blockquote>



You won't lose your kids. It might be hard for awhile with visitation stuff. But your kids love you and will eventually understand why it was best for everyone that their parents weren't together anymore.