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Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" ... [snip!] ... But your kids love you and will eventually understand why it was best for everyone that their parents weren't together anymore."</blockquote>



I hope so.
I want to talk to a professional or even a close friend. I've just been venting in private and no one who knows me knows how i feel.



I know I have lots of thinking and planning to do.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" ... [snip!] ... just been venting in private and no one who knows me knows how i feel. I know I have lots of thinking and planning to do."</blockquote>



Definitely take the time to think and plan out what you need to do. Focus as best you can, and don't let your husband's negativity sway you from your goals. Talking to a professional and/or close friend should help a lot.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
30th May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" ... [snip!] ... don't let your husband's negativity sway you from your goals. Talking to a professional and/or close friend should help a lot."</blockquote>




!!!!

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
30th May '13
Quoting Mommy|Of2:" DH just seems so soulless, like he doesn't care about me at all. He won't respond to my texts and doesn't ... [snip!] ... I feel trapped and depressed because its like our lives are going in a circle all the time and I don't know how to break it. :("


No offense, but your DH comes off as a jerk. I work a nurse's aide at too and have done overnight work. It is no fun. You deserve someone who will treat you better.

desert☮rain 1 child; Phoenix, Arizona 7674 posts
31st May '13
Quoting Abby Normal:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mommy|Of2:</b>" I know he shouldn't and he gets seriously pissed ... [snip!] ... want to leave. You should leave! Show your daughter that it is not okay to stay with a man that would treat his wife like that."

Exactly! If you fear that you're daughter is witnessing this and will end up with a man like him one day, why are you letting this happen to yourself? You deserve so much better, no man should ever make you feel that way, that is so horrible. I am sorry that you are married to such a prick.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
31st May '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" No offense, but your DH comes off as a jerk. I work a nurse's aide at too and have done overnight work. It is no fun. You deserve someone who will treat you better."</blockquote>



He is a jerk. No offense taken.
It's rough I had a nap after work for a few hours and still felt like crap all day like I haven't slept.
Thank gosh I have the weekend off :)

We're all mad here TTC since May 2013; 50 kids; North Carolina 623 posts
31st May '13

this reminds me of my ex huisband but he was calling me lardbutt and and other fat refernces and kept telling me he wished i looked like i did when we had met :( not to mention i had just had a baby when that started

Nae&Zoe's Mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Red Deer, Alberta 665 posts
1st Jun '13

Talking to you like that is abuse... He has ZERO right to make you feel bad about yourself. If my husband ever talked to me that way, saying Im fat I would pack my kids up and be gone. No child should ever hear one parent putting another parent down. If you have little girls they see their dad treating their mom that way and will let future men talk to them like that because they dont know any better and think its okay. OR if you have little boys they see their daddy talk to them that way and they think its okay to treat girls like that... Its awful!

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
1st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Xandirs Mommy:</b>" this reminds me of my ex huisband but he was calling me lardbutt and and other fat refernces and kept ... [snip!] ... and kept telling me he wished i looked like i did when we had met :( not to mention i had just had a baby when that started"</blockquote>



Aww I'm sorry you had to go through this mama :(



It's horrible and I'm pretty sick of feeling crappy all the time. I was happy all day yesterday until I got home at 8 and he was there ready to be an ass to me.

Mommy|Of2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Canada 3034 posts
1st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nae&Zoe's Mommy:</b>" Talking to you like that is abuse... He has ZERO right to make you feel bad about yourself. If my husband ... [snip!] ... you have little boys they see their daddy talk to them that way and they think its okay to treat girls like that... Its awful!"</blockquote>



Your completely right.
Its one of my worst nightmares to be the mother of an abused daughter and an abusive son. I hope it doesn't turn out that way. :(