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Hand in pants *kinda awkward* Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
1st Jun '13

Last night my SO woke me up saying I was rubbing myself in my sleep, and he asked me if I was having a sex dream. I told him I wasn't, rolled over and went back to sleep (I really wasn't, I was dreaming about school).



SO and I have been together for over 5 years, I have ALWAYS slept with my hand down my pants, or flat on my stomach with both hands in my pants. It's not to play with myself, but the pressure feels good when I have cramps or pain from PMS or my tubal, sometimes I get sharp pains into my vag.
He had no idea I sleep like this... which I find is odd since he comes to bed WAY after I am asleep and he is in our bedroom playing on the computer or laying in our bed watching t.v.



This morning he started teasing and bugging me about 'playing' with myself. And it really pissed me off and I started to get embarrassed... And even if at some point it was to play with myself while I was sleeping he shouldn't try to make me feel weird about it.




Does anyone else sleep with their hand down their pants, or does your SO? Why?

"L" 2 kids; Danville, Indiana 5906 posts
1st Jun '13

I like putting it right where my csection scar is... Even before I had a csection..

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
1st Jun '13

If you have been together for so long why not just explain your self to him?



SO said I legit touch myself and moan:shock:. I never remember my dreams so I can't defend myself. I can't control what I am doing while I am sleeping.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
1st Jun '13

I sleep with my hands on my lower belly, skin on skin. My husband has never brought it up.. But I was staying in a hotel with a friend and she thought I was about to do "that" lol I wasn't, but still embarrassing.

ℐustice ℛenee Due November 17 (boy); 1 child; Georgia 1060 posts
1st Jun '13

When I have cramps, I do.

AshWinsMomma 2 kids; Cincinnati, Ohio 161 posts
1st Jun '13

I get off in my sleep often.. I haven't had sex in over a year and want it constantly, so I dream about it. Idk if I actually touch mymself, but I can def feel the orgasm

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
1st Jun '13

If I'm sleeping on my belly, I put my hands on my lower abdomen - it's comfy.

[Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker] ; 18 kids; noneya, TN, United States 3245 posts
1st Jun '13

My husband does. I've inown since early in our relationship, and very rarely will poke fun at him for it, but he knows I'm not serious and I don't push it. The last time I even mentioned it was was when he fell asleep on my moms couch like that and I woke him up to tell him not to fondle his balls at her house haha.



Its kind of shitty that he's teasing you to the point of being embarassed. If you've already told him he's upsetting you and he still keeps on I would get hella pissed :/

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
1st Jun '13
Quoting [JadeLee]:" If you have been together for so long why not just explain your self to him? SO said I legit touch myself ... [snip!] ... and moan:shock:. I never remember my dreams so I can't defend myself. I can't control what I am doing while I am sleeping."


I did, he doesn't believe me.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
1st Jun '13

DH often puts his hand down his pants. He doesn't do it on purpose though, it happens after he's asleep lol. Sometimes if I'm bored I'll take a pic of him sleeping and he's like "I can't believe I sleep like that" lol

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
1st Jun '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" I did, he doesn't believe me. "

Well that is shitty. I guess I wouldn't know what to do, I would probably get pissed about it.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
1st Jun '13

I've slept with my hand down my pants ever since I was a little kid. I also rest my hand in my pants, like on my hip bone while sitting on the couch watching tv. I'm sure I've touched myself in my sleep before but DH hasn't said anything if I have lol

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
1st Jun '13

Thats how I sleep every single night
Pokes fun at me for it too, really pisses me off. He says its because "I always want him" yeah don't flatter yourself bro

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
1st Jun '13

I do, sometimes my arm feel light and tingly when I am trying to sleep and it helps to have them tucked in

one of each 4 me Due January 8; TTC since Mar 2014; 3 kids; Ohio 6210 posts
1st Jun '13

My kids both do. I think I do sometimes too.