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Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" I inboxed the administrator before i was bannec to see of my post was wrong in any way amd she inboxes ... [snip!] ... going back and forth with her. I was banned off of assumption that I saw someone else's post before posting my own. Really?"


Good lord.



You were banned because you broke the rules. Whether you saw them or not is moot. You broke them. You had the potential to hurt someone's feelings. And you're still acting as if you're the victim. Move on.



f**k. You are as dense as they come.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4500 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" I inboxed the administrator before i was bannec to see of my post was wrong in any way amd she inboxes ... [snip!] ... going back and forth with her. I was banned off of assumption that I saw someone else's post before posting my own. Really?"


Do you not understand that maybe you should've read the RULES first? Do you not understand that these women don't want to hear about your pregnancy? That group CLEARLY stated that the members did NOT want to hear about pregnancies.



It's like it doesn't even bother you. You didn't even apologize. :?

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4766 posts
Jun 3rd '13

Well at least now you know it WAS in fact because the women just aren't ready to hear about someone else being pregnant. I understand that you're upset because you may not have seen the other person's original post but that's why it's important to read over the rules when you first join a group like that. I think in the rules, you would have seen that it may have been inappropriate or inconsiderate to post about your pregnancy in there. I mean, I will admit....that woman appears to have been kind of rude. Not gonna lie but maybe they thought YOU were trying to be rude even though you weren't. You just didn't think about the consequences of what you posted is all. Bu now that you got your response, even if you don't think it's fair, I would just walk away and try to find another group to join that you will be free to discuss what you want without offending others.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮:</b>" Do you not understand that maybe you should've read the RULES first? Do you not understand that these ... [snip!] ... that the members did NOT want to hear about pregnancies. It's like it doesn't even bother you. You didn't even apologize. :?"</blockquote>




I wasn't given the chance to apologize. The girl corrected me. I read the rules and next thing I knew it was banned.



Again I had a loss and I was trying to help nothing more nothing less.



Also it doesn't bother me. I experienced a loss just like the other women in the group. My best friend was pregnant when I lost her and it gave me hope Bc she too had lost a baby. I said nothing wrong and it was taken out of context.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:</b>" Well at least now you know it WAS in fact because the women just aren't ready to hear about someone else ... [snip!] ... just walk away and try to find another group to join that you will be free to discuss what you want without offending others."</blockquote>



Thank you.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:</b>" Well at least now you know it WAS in fact because the women just aren't ready to hear about someone else ... [snip!] ... just walk away and try to find another group to join that you will be free to discuss what you want without offending others."</blockquote>



Also I skimmed over the rules when I first entered Bc I had been there for awhile. The rules were changed Bc people complained. I didn't know nor did I look back over them until today.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4500 posts
Jun 3rd '13

I think a 'Pregnancy After Loss' group would be more suitable for you.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4766 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:</b>" Well at least now you know it WAS in ... [snip!] ... been there for awhile. The rules were changed Bc people complained. I didn't know nor did I look back over them until today."

Ah gotcha. I only belong to one fb mom's group because I think it's too much drama, regardless of who starts it. I guess the group I'm in, it has been deleted and changed 4 different times prior because too many people were getting upset over the rules. Idk, I just try to stay drama free and don't post unless I know for sure that it's okay to do so.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:</b>" Ah gotcha. I only belong to one fb mom's group because I think it's too much drama, regardless of who ... [snip!] ... getting upset over the rules. Idk, I just try to stay drama free and don't post unless I know for sure that it's okay to do so."</blockquote>




Yea I think I'll just avoid groups from now on. I'm actually in the process of making my own group

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4766 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:</b>" Ah gotcha. I only belong to one fb ... [snip!] ... do so."</blockquote> Yea I think I'll just avoid groups from now on. I'm actually in the process of making my own group"

Well be sure to send me the link so I can join.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:</b>" Well be sure to send me the link so I can join."</blockquote>




I sure will when it's done

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting tay. ☮:</b>" Do you not understand that maybe you should've ... [snip!] ... pregnant when I lost her and it gave me hope Bc she too had lost a baby. I said nothing wrong and it was taken out of context."


You had every chance to apologize. You blocked the admin, yes?

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting Vindictive:" You had every chance to apologize. You blocked the admin, yes?"


I owed the administrator nothing. I owed the OP an apology bc I did not see her post and I was blocked before I could. So no I didn't have a chance to apologize.

Vindictive Due July 23; 50 kids; Switzerland 31001 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" I owed the administrator nothing. I owed the OP an apology bc I did not see her post and I was blocked before I could. So no I didn't have a chance to apologize."


You should have apologized to the admin for your mistake. For unknowingly hurting someones feelings.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
Jun 3rd '13
Quoting Vindictive:" You should have apologized to the admin for your mistake. For unknowingly hurting someones feelings."


No I should not have again I said nothing to her.



She judged me before even knowing my intent or if I had known the rules had been changed and even after realizing I messed up still tried to argue a point. Therefore if anything she owed me an apology.



Either way IDC anymore shes blocked im over it and now building my own group.