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Sometimes I wonder what if.. Nicoletti ღ Pennsylvania 999 posts
3rd Jun '13

The question keeps pondering in my mind "what if I wasn't so mean to Sophia's dad would we still be together, would things be different" .. I feel like Sophia & I aren't a family with her father (Danny) because I was always so mean to him when we were together, how I wish I could turn back time, and show him the person I really am ... I regret being such a b***h to him when I was pregnant, and I really wish he knew how I truly felt, we were together for 2 years before I got pregnant & we broke up before our daughter was born.



He has a new girlfriend now, and it's so hard to just sit back and watch them be a happy couple, it's so hard for me to sit there and watch him fall in love with someone else, I know I'm NOT the only one this has happened to but it's so hard .. Two guys have came into my life and accepted my daughter and me for who we are and they were willing to be there for us .. But I turned them away because I constantly compare every guy I meet to Danny. I can't stop thinking and blaming this all on myself because it IS my fault. I wish I could make things different, but I cant he hates me because of how mean I was, and all this other bs ..



.. Thanks for reading ladies just a vent :(

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
3rd Jun '13

Pregnancy makes your hormones go all out of wack, and even if you are a normally level headed person it's easier to snap. Have you told him you still have feelings for him and apologized for how you acted?

Nicoletti ღ Pennsylvania 999 posts
3rd Jun '13

No I haven't sad truth is I was a b***h to him even before I got pregnant .. He has a girlfriend now, they've been dating for almost 2 years I think, so I don't even wanna go there, I think it'll just makes things worse..

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
3rd Jun '13

I mean, I can't understand how hormones broke y'all. Because we've all been there and I know pregnancy is rough on the head but you do get a moment of clarity to say, whoa I need to chill. Did you just never get that? Were you a raging b***h the entire pregnancy or what?
Anyway, I feel like there is more to the story. And apparently he has moved on and you need to do that as well. You had your chance.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
3rd Jun '13
Quoting Nicoletti &Sophiaღ:" No I haven't sad truth is I was a b***h to him even before I got pregnant .. He has a girlfriend now, ... [snip!] ... now, they've been dating for almost 2 years I think, so I don't even wanna go there, I think it'll just makes things worse.."

Yeah it will. And it's not fair to his girlfriend. Time to move on.

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
3rd Jun '13

That sucks... hang in there. I think you're doing the right thing by letting him go and not interfering with his happiness now. You will eventually heal from this, though, and find the PERFECT guy for you. And then you'll see... everything turned out the way it was supposed to.

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 62979 posts
3rd Jun '13

Maybe you just spend time focusing on you and your daughter. Hopefully with time you'll think of your ex less and be able to have another relationship.