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Would this bother you? Bennett_Babe 1 child; 3 angel babies; Arizona 745 posts
3rd Jun '13

So my husband and i have a pretty crappy sex life, which Ive complained about before. Anyways, the other day, i was watching porn to get off, and came across one video that really was weird (hadnt seen one like it). Basically this larger lady was using a d***o on a guy and then at one point fliPped him over and used a s***p o* on him. I was like O.O. Lol anyways later on I was telling my husband about it when we were going to bed, and he got a raging b***r! Idk how to describe how i felt, mainly confused an frustrated since I always have to work really hard to get him hard at all when We have sex, and here he is getting a raging b***r when im talking about a guy getting anal...



He said it was just "a random b***r" which i think is baloney. One minute we are going to bed, no hardness at all, the next minute hes hard as a rock hearing about a guy getting anal. And as far as he tells me (not from the same day, months ago) hes not into anal play. Thoughts?



Idk i just thought the whole situation was weird

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
3rd Jun '13

Maybe he's gay and you're the cover up.

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15431 posts
3rd Jun '13

Maybe you talking about watching porn in general got him hard. I wouldn't think to far into it myself.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21162 posts
status 3rd Jun '13

Maybe it's something he's into and is embarrassed to tell you?



SO swears up and down that he doesn't want to get anal, but he likes for me to play with his rim. I tell him one day I'm just going to ram a finger in and he'll like it lol!

~*~Bri~*~ Due July 25 (twins); 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Cañon City, Colorado 786 posts
3rd Jun '13
Quoting RissaBbyGurl:" So my husband and i have a pretty crappy sex life, which Ive complained about before. Anyways, the other ... [snip!] ... me (not from the same day, months ago) hes not into anal play. Thoughts? Idk i just thought the whole situation was weird"


could be hiding certain thoughts from you so you don't see him as strange or whatever. I'd sit him down and talk to him about it, but dont get mad if something happens

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
3rd Jun '13

Maybe it was just you talking about porn and getting yourself off. Maybe his ashamed of his curiosity about anal play. Some guys think it makes them gay to want to explore it.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62850 posts
3rd Jun '13
Quoting Minion:" Maybe it's something he's into and is embarrassed to tell you? SO swears up and down that he doesn't ... [snip!] ... get anal, but he likes for me to play with his rim. I tell him one day I'm just going to ram a finger in and he'll like it lol!"


This. I dated a guy who actually liked anal stimulation and I hear a lot of men like it but are scared to try.

Bennett_Babe 1 child; 3 angel babies; Arizona 745 posts
3rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ave Mary A:</b>" Maybe he's gay and you're the cover up."</blockquote>




I dont think so...i guess it would all add up, him not wanting to have sex, gettin hard hearing about a guy getting anal. But he definately loves b**bs. Not sure about the vagina part. Idk

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
3rd Jun '13

Nope. DH and I are very open about our sexual fantasies and although we don't try all of them, we still discuss them and watch videos with that specific fantasy as a lead up to sexy time. Or even just a regular conversation between us.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
3rd Jun '13
Quoting Minion:" Maybe it's something he's into and is embarrassed to tell you? SO swears up and down that he doesn't ... [snip!] ... get anal, but he likes for me to play with his rim. I tell him one day I'm just going to ram a finger in and he'll like it lol!"


:!: This.

Rebekah Garden x3 Due October 5 (boy); 33 kids; Fall River, Massachusetts 5223 posts
3rd Jun '13

Idk there's lots of reasons, he could be gay. He could just want to try anal stimulation, he could just have gotten a b***r from think about you maturbating. I know my husband loves watching me masturbate.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21162 posts
status 3rd Jun '13
Quoting RissaBbyGurl:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ave Mary A:</b>" Maybe he's gay and you're the cover up."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... to have sex, gettin hard hearing about a guy getting anal. But he definately loves b**bs. Not sure about the vagina part. Idk"


Don't rush into assuming he's gay.



Many straight guys like to be pleasured anally.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
3rd Jun '13

Buy a s*****n and surprise him.

Bennett_Babe 1 child; 3 angel babies; Arizona 745 posts
3rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting misanthrope:</b>" Maybe you talking about watching porn in general got him hard. I wouldn't think to far into it myself. "</blockquote>




He actually suddenly doesnt like me watching porn for some reason. He said its cuz he doesnt want me to look at other naked people which is weird as heck since he never cared about it before. He doesnt watch it because he had a really bad porn addiction that was really hard to quit

Adriana's Mami♥ +1 Due December 14 (boy); 33 kids; Ontario 3858 posts
3rd Jun '13

I would probably drop it for now, don't pester him about it.. He might be intrigued but is embarrassed that he is? Or like the other ladies said maybe it was just you talking about watching porn.