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need some advice again Allissa Specht 35 kids; Essexville, Michigan 5437 posts
3rd Jun '13

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user banned 2 kids; Minnesota 7318 posts
3rd Jun '13
Quoting Allissa Specht:" So, DH and I are having some problems. Nothing major, just some issues lol. We are both really stressing ... [snip!] ... extreme or the other. Either being told to leave him, or telling me I'm being irrational about the situation and to grow up."


where's the original post? If you're waiting for the court to resolve this issue that is hanging over your head, it's not surprising that you can't deal. You don't know the answer or when you will get it and it seems like the direction of your life is depending on it based solely on the info in this post.



I'm sorry you're going through such a stressful situation...

Allissa Specht 35 kids; Essexville, Michigan 5437 posts
3rd Jun '13

I don't know if the original post is still there. I don't know what to think. I don't really think that I am basing my decision just on the DNA test, but would really like it to just be over so we know

user banned 2 kids; Minnesota 7318 posts
3rd Jun '13
Quoting Allissa Specht:" I don't know if the original post is still there. I don't know what to think. I don't really think that ... [snip!] ... I don't really think that I am basing my decision just on the DNA test, but would really like it to just be over so we know"


ya it just seems like maybe you don't know the extent of the situation, or the emotional impact it will have on you, until you know your answer. that is a lot of stress hanging over your head.

Summerfrost 51 kids; Massachusetts 6858 posts
4th Jun '13

The stress of not knowing is hard. I would hope though that your DH would tell you if he cheated before the results came back. That would do less damage I think than to find out he was just waiting to be caught. If he's innocent, then he's probably going to be annoyed that you acted suspicious. Either way, no matter what the results are, it's going to be a rough few days afterwards. Good luck OP and I hope you guys get the results you want.