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................ puppetofoz 16 kids; Canada 248 posts
4th Jun '13

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user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Jun '13

You have a SO and we sitting on some dudes lap?

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72131 posts
4th Jun '13

Don't lead him on for the sake of his potential feelings. Be honest, but let him down nicely.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72131 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:" You have a SO and we sitting on some dudes lap?"


Whaaaaaa?

puppetofoz 16 kids; Canada 248 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" You have a SO and we sitting on some dudes lap?"</blockquote>




No I don't.
I should have made that clear. I had one when I made my other friend dance with me.

Leah+2 2 kids; Texas 5797 posts
4th Jun '13

His "better plan" sounds like he'll be proposing a friends with benefits type thing. Honestly you need to shut him down. Now. It'll be awkward but much less awkward for you over a text. Be very clear or it'll just keep going and his feelings will turn lustful.




Oh, and DONT hide this from your SO. It makes you look guilty.



Edit: just re read and you're single. Ignore the last part but definitely do the first part.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" You have a SO and we sitting on some ... [snip!] ... lap?"</blockquote> No I don't. I should have made that clear. I had one when I made my other friend dance with me."</blockquote>



Ohhhhhhhh. Word.



Just tell him like it is. "I'm overly friendly when I'm drunk, I'm sorry but those weren't feelings, those were my lack of inhibitions"

puppetofoz 16 kids; Canada 248 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass ... [snip!] ... him like it is. "I'm overly friendly when I'm drunk, I'm sorry but those weren't feelings, those were my lack of inhibitions""</blockquote>



I want to but I feel like its way to after the fact.
Or do I still have time.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72131 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting puppetofoz:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... my lack of inhibitions""</blockquote> I want to but I feel like its way to after the fact. Or do I still have time."


"Way too after the fact" would be you purposely leading him on instead of just ending it now.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... my lack of inhibitions""</blockquote> I want to but I feel like its way to after the fact. Or do I still have time."</blockquote>



Letting him continue to think you have feelings for him is only going to make it worse in the future. Get it over with now before he wonders why you let it go on longer and longer ya know

Leah+2 2 kids; Texas 5797 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BαtMαɳ:</b>" "Way too after the fact" would be you purposely leading him on instead of just ending it now."</blockquote>




This. It's only too late if you let things get even worse.

puppetofoz 16 kids; Canada 248 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass ... [snip!] ... going to make it worse in the future. Get it over with now before he wonders why you let it go on longer and longer ya know"</blockquote>



This is true.
Why would be even want to wait till in person!?



I'm totally just going to copy and paste this...
I'm overly friendly when I'm drunk, I'm sorry but those weren't feelings, those were my lack of inhibitions.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... and paste this... I'm overly friendly when I'm drunk, I'm sorry but those weren't feelings, those were my lack of inhibitions."</blockquote>



That's what I would do. Short, sweet, to the point.




On a side note don't get drunk around him anytime soon

puppetofoz 16 kids; Canada 248 posts
4th Jun '13

I asked if we could talk.



How long should I wait for a response before I just send my message and then block his number?

puppetofoz 16 kids; Canada 248 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Smartass ... [snip!] ... That's what I would do. Short, sweet, to the point. On a side note don't get drunk around him anytime soon"</blockquote>




Trust me I won't.
I drink maybe 3 times a year. I wont see another drink until Christmas.