<blockquote><b>Quoting puppetofoz:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαtMαɳ:</b>" "Way too after the fact" would be ... [snip!] ... I asked if we could talk. How long should I wait for a response before I just send my message and then block his number?"</blockquote>
If you guys are friends I see no reason not to try to continue a friendship (strictly friends and no drinking). It'll make things even more awkward if you just cut all ties because you guys have mutual friends.
Obviously if he's not accepting no and making things difficult then by all means cut ties and be done.