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Would you.... user banned
4th Jun '13

Would you date someone with an incurable STD such as herpes/warts (just an example could be anything incurable) if they were upfront with you? Why/why not?

mommy2thing1&thing2 Due November 11 (girl); 2 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 3064 posts
4th Jun '13

no, i wouldnt want to get that STD or chance getting it. id always wonder how they got it and so on. but the thought of STD's is gross to me

saageex3 1 child; New York 5798 posts
4th Jun '13

No. I wouldn't want to take that risk, ever. I think it would be super easy to just walk away especially since no feelings have developed.

tinana+2 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29680 posts
4th Jun '13

Platonic dating if I liked them. Have sex with them/want to commit to anything with them? Nope.



Reason: what if it didn't work out down the road, and protection wasn't successful? I'd be devastated. Maybe it's shallow :oops: Oh well.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
4th Jun '13

No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't want to take the chance of getting it, too.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting mommy2thing1&thing2:" no, i wouldnt want to get that STD or chance getting it. id always wonder how they got it and so on. but the thought of STD's is gross to me "



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Sorry dude.
I feel bad for people with them though. But I couldn't date anyone with that. Friends, sure. Date, nope.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
4th Jun '13

I think men are more accepting than females. I know a few that have accepted the fact that their girlfriends had a disease and actually went forward with a relationship.

mommy2thing1&thing2 Due November 11 (girl); 2 kids; Phoenix, Arizona 3064 posts
4th Jun '13

i would feel bad if someone cheated on you and thats how you got it but not bad enough that id want it myself. people are in a relationship/married for years and it goes belly up....then your stuck with it too.

JΔ$ Georgia 78701 posts
status 4th Jun '13

Hell to the no.

Adriana's Mami♥ +1 Due December 14 (boy); 33 kids; Ontario 3858 posts
4th Jun '13

Honestly, maybe? If we had been dating for awhile and I really cared for them. I was under the impression that people with stuff like herpes can take medication to stop outbreaks? Am I wrong about that? It's only contagious if you have sex during an outbreak right?

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Adriana's Mami♥ +1:" Honestly, maybe? If we had been dating for awhile and I really cared for them. I was under the impression ... [snip!] ... can take medication to stop outbreaks? Am I wrong about that? It's only contagious if you have sex during an outbreak right?"


They have to take pills and with the pills without an outbreak its like it doesn't exist it lays dormant. Theres also condoms and yes they are not supposed to have sex when there is an outbreak. It never goes away but there are ways to maintain a safe relationship with it. I know people with it.

Adriana's Mami♥ +1 Due December 14 (boy); 33 kids; Ontario 3858 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" They have to take pills and with the pills without an outbreak its like it doesn't exist it lays dormant. ... [snip!] ... there is an outbreak. It never goes away but there are ways to maintain a safe relationship with it. I know people with it."</blockquote>




In a case like that, I could deal with it. If it was something that couldn't be treated and I would 100% get it as well, I couldn't.

Black Cat 1 child; Marvel, PA, United States 3827 posts
4th Jun '13

Nope. I don't want a disease.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
4th Jun '13

I wouldn't. I'm terrified that I'll get something like that and no one will want me, because I know I wouldn't want someone with one.

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4675 posts
4th Jun '13

Absolutely NOT! I know that may seem bad but I don't personally care if there's only a slight chance you could contract it because of being on medication. Nothing is 100%. To me it wouldn't matter if a guy was upfront and honest from the beginning or lied about it. I would feel the same way. And honestly, I can understand why some women said they could be friends with someone that had an STD but I guess I couldn't. Idk I would just feel odd being around that person even though I couldn't catch it except from being sexually active with them. Cause I don't know a lot about all the STDS but some of them you can even catch from the toilet from what I've heard. I wouldn't want to risk any kind of exposure to myself. But that's just me.