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Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15706 posts
status 4th Jun '13

What if he has HPV? Unless he's a virgin you would never know.

Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15706 posts
status 4th Jun '13
Quoting Trey&Genesis'momma:" Absolutely NOT! I know that may seem bad but I don't personally care if there's only a slight chance ... [snip!] ... even catch from the toilet from what I've heard. I wouldn't want to risk any kind of exposure to myself. But that's just me."


You're probably friends with a lot of people with STDs.

Mara Due September 27 (girl); 2 kids; San Francisco, California 38964 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Adriana's Mami♥ +1:" Honestly, maybe? If we had been dating for awhile and I really cared for them. I was under the impression ... [snip!] ... can take medication to stop outbreaks? Am I wrong about that? It's only contagious if you have sex during an outbreak right?"


you are correct.



you can suppress herpes w/ medication.



if it was some random dude who wanted to date me, but i wasn't feeling it, it WOULD be a deal breaker.



BUT... if the guy was a winner, i'd deal... it's not a deal-breaker for winners, whatsoever.



love = loving someone in every aspect, including their diseases.



i mean, you wouldn't break up w/ someone b/c they had cancer, would you?

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
4th Jun '13

Most of us has some form of herpes (cold sores, anyone?) but I wouldn't want to date someone who had genital herpes or something worse, like HIV. Deal-breaker.

ms coco Due July 5 (boy); 2 kids; Fort Worth, Texas 152 posts
4th Jun '13

No because I wouldn't want to catch it and then I wouldn't want to suffer from something like that but I am friends with girls and guys with STDS and they don't act any different but as fars with dating one no couldn't

Anja[VBA2C GRADx2!] 5 kids; Illinois 3576 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Mara:" you are correct. you can suppress herpes w/ medication. if it was some random dude who wanted to ... [snip!] ... someone in every aspect, including their diseases. i mean, you wouldn't break up w/ someone b/c they had cancer, would you? "

This.



I wouldn't care because if someone seemed like a great person , and ESPECIALLY if they were honest and upfront about it I think they would still be datable. People with incurable stds need love too! There's probably SOME WAY to have save sex with someone who has one of the incurable stds , there's way to avoid having children with them, etc.