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Miss Brittany 1 child; Here, PA, United States 3747 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" He is a good dad always there for his kids but when I was dealing with feedings and diaper changes during ... [snip!] ... PTSD and can not stand crying most of the time. I didnt mind doing everything but during the day he can volunteer am I right??"</blockquote>



I had severe PPD and was still able to take care of my child.

bama mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Alabama 626 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting mrs jones ♥:" It reminds me of an episode I've seen on Nanny 911. Maybe you should go pamper yourself and let him watch the kids all day."

Going to get groceries tomorrow then in the afternoon going to get a pedicure and getting my hair highlighted and probably go get me a new pair of sandals!! LOL Thank you ladies

Jacob & Caleb's mommy 2 kids; Wolcott, Connecticut 261 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" My baby is 6 months old and I do want another baby. I have 2 boys and want a little girl!! Here is the ... [snip!] ... but just want to know that I am not the only one who does everything for their kids while the dad hardly does anything. "</blockquote>




I have two boys too a 2 1/2 year old and 6 month old and I do everything. My so doesn't help with the kids unless I beg him too. I get annoyed yes but I want five kids and I really want a girl so I plan on having more. I know ill do everything but I love my kids so much that idc.

lise. ෆ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 58936 posts
status 4th Jun '13

Your SO reminds me of BD. And well, I couldn't take any more. Stupidly, when DD had just turned 1, we decided to try for another. So glad that we didn't end up conceiving.



My last thought would be another child. I'd be working on getting some help with the child y'all have.

bama mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Alabama 626 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Jacob & Caleb's mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" My baby is 6 months old and I do want another ... [snip!] ... five kids and I really want a girl so I plan on having more. I know ill do everything but I love my kids so much that idc."

I love my kids to but I get stressed easily and want help and his like why cant I do it.

Jacob & Caleb's mommy 2 kids; Wolcott, Connecticut 261 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" I love my kids to but I get stressed easily and want help and his like why cant I do it. "</blockquote>




I totally understand how you feel. My so is better with our olderr son he's two so he gives him more attention. I make it knolwn that he's useless with the kids bc I tell him its a partnership. He works fulltime and I'm a stayathome mom but he still needs to step up more. I'm hoping he will start being more hands on too.

bama mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Alabama 626 posts
4th Jun '13
Quoting Jacob & Caleb's mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" I love my kids to but I get stressed easily ... [snip!] ... works fulltime and I'm a stayathome mom but he still needs to step up more. I'm hoping he will start being more hands on too."

My DH is an Iraq War Veteran so he can not really work at all. He cant make that excuss of working cause he cant. I mean I would do anything for my kids but still would be nice if the baby starts crying he can say i will get him instead of just sitting there on his phone doing nothing. I guess I will have to do it all on my own.

Jenny&Boopy 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7168 posts
4th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" I am tonight. He does play with him and do things with. If I want to go out and have a day away for a ... [snip!] ... time and I will have to wake him up to change him and put him back in bed. Now I have to ask at least 3 times to change him. "</blockquote>




I hope it helps talking. Sometimes I do get frustrated when he's not doing anything and I want to eat a hot meal for a change. Usually the :evil: face does the trick lol.

bama mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Alabama 626 posts
4th Jun '13

Just had a long talk with DH and he apologized and said he will try to help out more. Hope he does cause I Dont want him to miss out on any thing! He has 2 kids from previous relationship and they live 1000 miles away and he gets depressed cause he can't see them like he wants to

Jenny&Boopy 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7168 posts
5th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bama mommy:</b>" Just had a long talk with DH and he apologized and said he will try to help out more. Hope he does cause ... [snip!] ... 2 kids from previous relationship and they live 1000 miles away and he gets depressed cause he can't see them like he wants to"</blockquote>




That's great that he apologized! Hopefully he helps you now!

bama mommy 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Alabama 626 posts
5th Jun '13

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