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user banned Due June 9; Japan 230 posts
5th Jun '13

oh yah your the worst!



What is wrong with people? How messed up it would be if you didnt let your kids see there grandparents? When I was little going to see my grampa was my absolute favorite thing to do! I used to cry on weekend that i couldnt go out there. Your parents are family ya know. In my opinion grooming thzat love between family members is very important!

Haley+2♥ Due June 27; TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; Michigan 16510 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting AppleDumplin:" oh yah your the worst! What is wrong with people? How messed up it would be if you didnt let your kids ... [snip!] ... go out there. Your parents are family ya know. In my opinion grooming thzat love between family members is very important!"


i do agree with that! i used to sleepover at my grandparents or aunts and uncles houses any chance i got! i would beg to stay there!

user banned Due April 2; Georgia 7200 posts
5th Jun '13

You are the most horrible parent! I always have these heathens of mine stuck up under me. The only time I get a break from them, is holidays when DH takes them to his folks house for a few hours.

Haley+2♥ Due June 27; TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; Michigan 16510 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting .CeCe.:" Does she have kids? :lol: Shit she'd throw a real fit if she heard I left my son with my parents for 4 days to go to Jamaica :shock: CALL CPS! lol"


she has two kids. she's an idiot. if i had a dollar for ever poor parenting decision she made but she's one of those people that thinks all moms should stay at home and she doesn't ever do anything extraordinary but i swear she thinks she is super mom simply because she is a sahm and i have a job.

Mrs. Potato Dick Madagascar 20356 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting *Mayhem*:" You are a shitty parent...just because I'm jealous lol"


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:D :D

Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
5th Jun '13

Psht. She is probably just mad she doesn't get a break. My oldest DD sleeps at my moms atleast twice a week sometimes more. I don't make her,its her and my mom's doing.

Haley+2♥ Due June 27; TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; Michigan 16510 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting Mother of One plus One:" Psht. She is probably just mad she doesn't get a break. My oldest DD sleeps at my moms atleast twice a week sometimes more. I don't make her,its her and my mom's doing."


she gets breaks all the time she is living at MILs while her husband is away for work and she leaves her kids there during the day all the time. apparently the difference is she goes places during the day and we go at night when we're both done with work for the day.

✖Mandalorian 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Georgia 5386 posts
5th Jun '13

Man I must be a REALLY shitty parent then. We send DS to grandma's every other Saturday night (when DH is off work) so we can do things together. :twisted:

♥Rach♥ 2 kids; Arizona 12875 posts
5th Jun '13

Better call CPS! Watch out! Mothers must be with their children 24/7. :roll:



My parents or in-laws will watch DD while we go out on date nights or while I go to the gym. In-laws watch her while I work. *gasp* When she's older, she'll be sleeping over when she feels like it. I want her to have a great relationship with all of her grandparents. Guess I'm just a horrible horrible mom.

♥Rach♥ 2 kids; Arizona 12875 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting Haley+2♥:" she gets breaks all the time she is living at MILs while her husband is away for work and she leaves ... [snip!] ... apparently the difference is she goes places during the day and we go at night when we're both done with work for the day."


Yup, because having the occasional date night with your hubby is soooo much worse than leaving your kids during the day. That's completely logical! lol.

Haley+2♥ Due June 27; TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; Michigan 16510 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting ♥Rach♥:" Yup, because having the occasional date night with your hubby is soooo much worse than leaving your kids during the day. That's completely logical! lol."


apparently her logic is that when we go to the movies we arent able to put the kids to bed early enough............seriously. they're at their grandma's she has a spare bedroom/playroom and we leave for like 2 hours. who cares! we've needed it lately because we're trying to heal and get past our recent miscarriage which really put a strain on our relationship for a few weeks because i was so miserable.

♥Rach♥ 2 kids; Arizona 12875 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting Haley+2♥:" apparently her logic is that when we go to the movies we arent able to put the kids to bed early enough............seriously. ... [snip!] ... and get past our recent miscarriage which really put a strain on our relationship for a few weeks because i was so miserable."


I'm sorry for your loss. :( I think it's great that you and your husband are trying to spend time together and trying to heal/get through everything. :D That is ridiculous for her to say! She would think I'm the worst parent ever. DD never goes to bed early. It's nice for kids to spend time with their grandparents and every parent needs a break!

Destinite 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 31552 posts
5th Jun '13

She's not the brightest bulb, eh? I think it is great you take time for each other. Being happy as a couple will help you be happy and healthy as a family!

Trey&Genesis'momma 4 kids; 4 angel babies; Somewhere, IN, United States 4660 posts
5th Jun '13

I can kind of relate. I got told that I wasn't allowed to go to an amusement park for one day without my kids because it's not fair to them. My kids are 4,3 and almost 2 and my oldest is scared to death to ride kiddy rides by himself. He is NOT ready to go to an amusement park. We tried it once last year and it was a horrible and long day of him whining. Never again. I don't get breaks really. It's been 3 years since I was completely childless for one day. I think I deserve one day to spend with my husband. We really should try more often but I just feel like I'm the parent and we shouldn't always depend on others to take our kids. But that's just me. So it's a rare occasion when we actually get one day or night to ourselves. There is NOTHING wrong with getting to spend time with your DH without your children. The only thing I get mad about with my SIL is because she thinks she needs a break from her child three times or more a week and constantly pawns him off anyways. THAT to me is a little ridiculous. Breaks are nice but when you're suddenly spending more time alone than you are with your child....something is wrong.

EK91 1 child; Fort Worth, TX, United States 700 posts
5th Jun '13
Quoting MommyToWesley:" Oops, guilty here too. Once a month or so we'll go to a friend's house for game night. Let's call CPS on each other!"


hahaha