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I CAN'T CATCH A FUCKING BREAK ! :'( Aria's Mommy&Daddy Due December 18 (boy); 1 child; Mesa, Arizona 806 posts
5th Jun '13

Bd ran off to his ex bcuz that's the easy way out! He can't live with me at the moment but im TRYING to get a place. He has no where to go so he ran back to her! & she's a compulsive liar! Lied about being pregnant twice and once getting an abortion bcuz she found out im pregnant again. Im so hurt & pissed off with everything. I don't get why he can't stick thru the hard and be patient! She's not someone i want my dd see around! She can't even be responsible dd fell and hit her head and she decided she wanted to have a argument with him instead of taking dd to the hospital! I had to rush & get her ! I don't know what to think. If he's there bcuz he loves her or if he's desperate!? Hes ran to her once b4 bcuz he had no where else to live but he always runs back to me no matter what! I don't fucking understand but im heart broken again...... My poor dd its so confusing for her & myself & being pregnant i feel like SHIT

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72131 posts
5th Jun '13

Cut your losses and let him go.

Jenny&Boopy Due June 26; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7782 posts
5th Jun '13

I wouldn't stay with someone who kept running back to their ex, bad news there.

Summerfrost 51 kids; Massachusetts 6861 posts
5th Jun '13
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GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
5th Jun '13

There's no way I'd let my BD go back and forth to whatever was convenient. Fuck that and get an order that she isn't to be around your DD if that's where he's going to stay.

how khuntastik 4 kids; California 1273 posts
5th Jun '13

I don't really have advice but know that you are worth more than a man who is basically involved with two women. Screw her and what she is all about it doesn't matter, he is the one that should be hanging by your side and trying to get a place for your family not running back to an ex for a place to live.
I am sorry for the fact you are hurting.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
5th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BαtMαɳ:</b>" Cut your losses and let him go."</blockquote>




!!!



You keep letting him behave this way, he's going to keep doing it.

lunch lady 2 kids; Tennessee 2123 posts
5th Jun '13

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Aria's Mommy&Daddy Due December 18 (boy); 1 child; Mesa, Arizona 806 posts
5th Jun '13

It's all easier said then done.. I wish i could.. But I love him.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72131 posts
5th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aria's Mommy&Daddy:</b>" It's all easier said then done.. I wish i could.. But I love him."</blockquote>



But does he love you the way you love him?



Love isn't some magical fix for all of life's problems and it sure as hell isn't the answer either. You need to realize that you deserve more than what he is giving you.

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
6th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aria's Mommy&Daddy:</b>" It's all easier said then done.. I wish i could.. But I love him."</blockquote>




Love is nothing if it isn't coming from both ends. I don't know why you'd settle for less and to allow to be used as a rebound over and over.

MahmuhMahmuh 3 kids; Wichita, Kansas 6706 posts
6th Jun '13

If "running back to her" is even an option, no matter the circumstances, that relationship isn't through. No wonder he acts that way, he can. You and his ex both let him. There'd be no "waiting" on you to figure shit out and have a place for you to live if he'd be a grown ass man and find his own place to live, but why should he? He can just bounce back and forth between the two of you. I know from experience that that's a bad situation to be in, this baby's father has an ex that is more than willing to "take him back" and I refuse to be in a relationship with him because of that, he will run to her whenever he's tired of pleasing someone else.

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
7th Jun '13

It's kind of disturbing that it's been like this & yet you're having another child with him. There is absolutely no freaking way, I'd ever accept DH doing that. Like you said, it's confusing for DD. Screw me. How can he do that to his own daughter? Nope. Just nope!