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Why I know I married the wrong person ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
6th Jun '13

I saw this story on FB.... It's a little religious at the end, but worth the quick read.



Today my wife Lindsay and I celebrate our two year anniversary. Two years ago, we tied the knot and took the plunge. Two years ago, the cutest girl in Indiana was taken off the market! Two years ago, we launched the beginning of the rest of our lives. Two years ago

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
6th Jun '13

I loved this. It really portrays the relationship DH and I have. It takes time, maturity, honesty, and humility to have a healthy relationship that builds you both up.

Mrs.Peterson Due May 12; 2 kids; Euless, Texas 61 posts
6th Jun '13

I really like this :)

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
6th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sneakthief:</b>" I loved this. It really portrays the relationship DH and I have. It takes time, maturity, honesty, and humility to have a healthy relationship that builds you both up."</blockquote>




This exactly!

.Christin. 1 child; Florida 1351 posts
6th Jun '13

beautifully put.

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
6th Jun '13

Is there a page on FB that it came from. This is really spot on.

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
6th Jun '13

I loved this.

Zeke's Mama 2 kids; Pensacola, Florida 5850 posts
status 6th Jun '13

Oh I loved this, its such a great message.

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
6th Jun '13

I'm really tired of seeing all these things about marriage all over the place. I really detest the idea people are putting out there that if you get a divorce it means you just didn't try hard enough.
There are many people out there, including myself, who gave their marriage EVERYTHING they've got, and it still didn't work. I shouldn't have to feel bad about it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36618 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting Ave Mary A:" I'm really tired of seeing all these things about marriage all over the place. I really detest the idea ... [snip!] ... myself, who gave their marriage EVERYTHING they've got, and it still didn't work. I shouldn't have to feel bad about it."


I agree!! Not even divorce, just breaking up with a longtime partner. I mean dont get me wrong, I love it when they fight and marriages can get mended, but yeah. It doesnt mean the the ones that are breaking up / divorcing didnt try that hard.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
6th Jun '13

I stand by the idea that relationship issues are caused by underlining personal issues of either one or both parties.

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" I stand by the idea that relationship issues are caused by underlining personal issues of either one or both parties."


I think that's a load of bull. People grow, they change. Sometimes when two people go together in the beginning, doesn't mean they will in the end.
When (ex)Dh and I first met we were both young, immature kids. We both obsessed over video games and anime.
As we grew up, I figured out that being into that stuff just wasn't my thing anymore. I wanted to shed that skin.



I felt that living a life more in tune with nature and spirit was more important to me. I wanted to live in the country, raise animals, grow my own food.
(ex)DH hated that idea of life. He wanted a city, a life filled with as much technology as possible.



We weren't the same people. We weren't in love.
Marriage is something you have with someone you love and care about. You work together on your problems.



What we had were not "problems" (as far as the example I gave goes), they were differences that were never going to line up.

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
6th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ave Mary A:</b>" I think that's a load of bull. People grow, they change. Sometimes when two people go together in the ... [snip!] ... What we had were not "problems" (as far as the example I gave goes), they were differences that were never going to line up. "</blockquote>




I think that's more a case of getting married to young or to immature.



I don't think anyone should feel bad about marriage or divorce, but I still like the message of his story.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
6th Jun '13

I agree with this but it's got nothing to do with the bible. DH and I have these views and we are Humanist (Atheist).

JulieBarns Due May 7 (girl); 3 kids; Japan 70 posts
6th Jun '13

I really enjoyed this story! I can relate to it in a lot of ways, and it was just something interesting to read. Thanks for sharing!
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