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A is Me 1 child; South Carolina 3782 posts
6th Jun '13

Have sex in another room. Jesus.

Ivana, VBA2C success! 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 6834 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Not when they're that old. What do they ... [snip!] ... ground and get out of your comfort zone and have sex elsewhere."</blockquote> She's in a cot so it's not moveable."

what exactly are you worried about with leaving her alone?? She is old enough to be sleeping alone safely for any amount of time. I understand being attached, TRUST ME, I do, my son is 28 months, STILL nursing, STILL sleeping in bed with us, but seriously you gotta back off a bit and give some love to your husband. Your baby will be fine in the cot on her own for a little bit while you reconnect with your husband!

Ꭶwan♥Nemo 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7416 posts
6th Jun '13

I think its time to get out of comfort zone somewhere. Once in ten months? If you dont want to take your child out the room. Sex outside of the bedroom is fun and adds spice. Theres the shower, living room, spare bedroom, closet, car, kitchen, dining room, laundry room...

Ivana, VBA2C success! 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 6834 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting Now and Forever:" Do you live alone? If yes, why don't you like having sex in other rooms. I can't imagine having sex in ... [snip!] ... she keeps staring at you guys. I know, she's ten months old probably doesn't know what's happening but still, it's weird. "

I KNOW!! Our SIL lives with us and I hate that we can't just leave our son in our bed and go have sex on the livingroom floor like we used to. The other night we went into our son's empty bedroom at 2am just to do it!

Ivana, VBA2C success! 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 6834 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting hobbit*:" I know I do :( I just hate the way I look after having 2 kids in less than 2 years it really took a tole ... [snip!] ... our children sit on our couch. I know it's not much different than the kids lying in our bed lol I just feel weird about it."

so do I, so what we used to do before our SIL moved in was take our blanket and go to the livingroom floor.

user banned California 36390 posts
6th Jun '13

We're still roomsharing with our 3 1/2 year old so we only have sex in our bed when he's upstairs with my in-laws. If he's home, we have sex in the living room or bathroom and sometimes we'll put him on the couch if we really want to use.the.bed

✖Mandalorian 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Georgia 5386 posts
6th Jun '13
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_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting ✖Mandalorian:" :!: This. Some of the best times i've had sex were NOT in our bedroom. In fact, we prefer not doing it in our bedroom now."


Not for me. I'm old I guess, and I prefer comfort with my sex, haha.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15538 posts
6th Jun '13

Invest in a air mattress. Put it in the living room and have some adult time. My husband would hate me if we had sex once in ten months.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
6th Jun '13

cosleepers-do-it-in-the-kitchen_design.p

It's a boy!!!!*3/27/13* 19 kids; Kyle, Texas 4244 posts
6th Jun '13

I am no help. We haven't had sex in months! Lol

Jenny&Boopy Due June 26; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7478 posts
status 6th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ✖Mandalorian:</b>" :!: This. Some of the best times i've had sex were NOT in our bedroom. In fact, we prefer not doing it in our bedroom now."</blockquote>




Lol us too. We haven't had sex in our bed in forever.



And OP, you can always throw a blanket on the couch or floor if you're worried about tainting them or whatever. Shower is always a great place because when you're done you can get clean without going anywhere.

Ivana, VBA2C success! 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 6834 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" Invest in a air mattress. Put it in the living room and have some adult time. My husband would hate me if we had sex once in ten months."

shit we'd probably be divorced because of how strong my hubby's sex drive is, or he would have cheated!

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
6th Jun '13
Quoting 7 lucky charms:" <blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" My baby is almost 10 months and still sleeps in ... [snip!] ... we cant anywhere else but the bed either. our house is too busy.he doesnt wake. none of them ever have. just try be quite;-)"


our house is really busy too but we will sneak in the bathroom, laundry room, or living room if everyone is in bed. Our LO is 6mo old so she just goes in the pack n play if we wanna use the bed :)Our 2yr olds room is right next to ours in the basement but she could sleep through a world war, so there are no worries there !

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15538 posts
6th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ivana, expecting #3!:</b>" shit we'd probably be divorced because of how strong my hubby's sex drive is, or he would have cheated!"</blockquote>




I don't think that would happen to us but would be a huge asshole everyday until I gave him some lol.