Have sex in another room. Jesus.
Quoting hobbit*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Not when they're that old. What do they ... [snip!] ... ground and get out of your comfort zone and have sex elsewhere."</blockquote> She's in a cot so it's not moveable."
what exactly are you worried about with leaving her alone?? She is old enough to be sleeping alone safely for any amount of time. I understand being attached, TRUST ME, I do, my son is 28 months, STILL nursing, STILL sleeping in bed with us, but seriously you gotta back off a bit and give some love to your husband. Your baby will be fine in the cot on her own for a little bit while you reconnect with your husband!
I think its time to get out of comfort zone somewhere. Once in ten months? If you dont want to take your child out the room. Sex outside of the bedroom is fun and adds spice. Theres the shower, living room, spare bedroom, closet, car, kitchen, dining room, laundry room...
Quoting Now and Forever:" Do you live alone? If yes, why don't you like having sex in other rooms. I can't imagine having sex in ... [snip!] ... she keeps staring at you guys. I know, she's ten months old probably doesn't know what's happening but still, it's weird. "
I KNOW!! Our SIL lives with us and I hate that we can't just leave our son in our bed and go have sex on the livingroom floor like we used to. The other night we went into our son's empty bedroom at 2am just to do it!
Quoting hobbit*:" I know I do :( I just hate the way I look after having 2 kids in less than 2 years it really took a tole ... [snip!] ... our children sit on our couch. I know it's not much different than the kids lying in our bed lol I just feel weird about it."
so do I, so what we used to do before our SIL moved in was take our blanket and go to the livingroom floor.
We're still roomsharing with our 3 1/2 year old so we only have sex in our bed when he's upstairs with my in-laws. If he's home, we have sex in the living room or bathroom and sometimes we'll put him on the couch if we really want to use.the.bed
Quoting ✖Mandalorian:" :!: This. Some of the best times i've had sex were NOT in our bedroom. In fact, we prefer not doing it in our bedroom now."
Not for me. I'm old I guess, and I prefer comfort with my sex, haha.
Invest in a air mattress. Put it in the living room and have some adult time. My husband would hate me if we had sex once in ten months.
I am no help. We haven't had sex in months! Lol
<blockquote><b>Quoting ✖Mandalorian:</b>" :!: This. Some of the best times i've had sex were NOT in our bedroom. In fact, we prefer not doing it in our bedroom now."</blockquote>
Lol us too. We haven't had sex in our bed in forever.
And OP, you can always throw a blanket on the couch or floor if you're worried about tainting them or whatever. Shower is always a great place because when you're done you can get clean without going anywhere.
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" Invest in a air mattress. Put it in the living room and have some adult time. My husband would hate me if we had sex once in ten months."
shit we'd probably be divorced because of how strong my hubby's sex drive is, or he would have cheated!
Quoting 7 lucky charms:" <blockquote><b>Quoting hobbit*:</b>" My baby is almost 10 months and still sleeps in ... [snip!] ... we cant anywhere else but the bed either. our house is too busy.he doesnt wake. none of them ever have. just try be quite;-)"
our house is really busy too but we will sneak in the bathroom, laundry room, or living room if everyone is in bed. Our LO is 6mo old so she just goes in the pack n play if we wanna use the bed :)Our 2yr olds room is right next to ours in the basement but she could sleep through a world war, so there are no worries there !
<blockquote><b>Quoting Ivana, expecting #3!:</b>" shit we'd probably be divorced because of how strong my hubby's sex drive is, or he would have cheated!"</blockquote>
I don't think that would happen to us but would be a huge a*****e everyday until I gave him some lol.