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f**king LIES Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

Omg. I posted earlier that I got a call from my old lawyer that BD is trying to legitimize DD.



Well I stopped by earlier this afternoon to the lawyer's and read this letter that the lawyer received.



Apparently ( :roll: ) BD got "his half" of the court ordered DNA test done back in 2009 and has been "desperately" been trying to contact me and try to convince me to submit DD's DNA.
And I am blatantly refusing to cooperate and have been at times unreachable.
They had to go through DFCS to find my contact information. :roll:



And I will be in contempt of court if I keep refusing to cooperate any further.
We have a court date set for the end of July.



Oh my f**king god. This is the absolute first time I've heard all this mess.



Not once have I been contacted. Ever.



And I even went to BD's church with my SIL for a few weeks earlier this year and he flat out ignored DD. Plus his girlfriend is a friend on my Facebook.
He KNOWS I have a Facebook!
And my SIL has told him on several occasions, both in person and over Facebook, that if he wanted to see DD we could go to the park.



A bunch of f**king LIES.



And my so-called lawyer had hand written notes to himself on the letter. It said, "What to do?----Make her go to the DNA appointment."




I'm so f**king PISSED!!!!! I didn't mean to, but I started fussing in the lawyer's office. :oops:

L&J ♥ +1 Due August 29 (boy); 2 kids; New Jersey 7498 posts
7th Jun '13

I would be really aggravated too.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15526 posts
7th Jun '13

Why not just take the DNA test?

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21599 posts
7th Jun '13

I'd fire my lawyer

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" Why not just take the DNA test?"</blockquote>




Because he doesn't need to have anything to do with her. He has never met her in the 4 years she has been here.
He also told me he cares nothing about her.



She is very happy.



I would have done the DNA test back in 2009 but I never received any word about it. I though BD had let it drop.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
7th Jun '13

If he did in fact take half of the dna test and you didn't show you would've been subpoenaed in. Im assuming that's through the court though.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:</b>" I'd fire my lawyer"</blockquote>



Oh I am. I have an appointment with him Tuesday. He won't like me when we're done.



He has not fought for me once since I've hired him.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" If he did in fact take half of the dna test and you didn't show you would've been subpoenaed in. Im assuming that's through the court though."</blockquote>



I don't believe he did. The judge said back in 2009 for his lawyer to get with my lawyer when BD was ready to set up the appointment. That was the last I heard about it.

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21599 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:</b>" I'd fire my lawyer"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... I have an appointment with him Tuesday. He won't like me when we're done. He has not fought for me once since I've hired him."</blockquote>



This all seems like his fault. He had paper work and letters saying they were looking for you and he said nothing? I hope you don't have to pay him

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15526 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" Why not just take the DNA test?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... very happy. I would have done the DNA test back in 2009 but I never received any word about it. I though BD had let it drop."</blockquote>



As much as it sucks she is his daughter also. The courts can and will force you to have a DNA test done. I wouldn't fight it, it will just look bad on you.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Elliot Grace's ... [snip!] ... his fault. He had paper work and letters saying they were looking for you and he said nothing? I hope you don't have to pay him"</blockquote>




Right? I have not been under the radar at all. Plus the lawyer knows my dad really well. He could have contacted me if he wanted to.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army ... [snip!] ... daughter also. The courts can and will force you to have a DNA test done. I wouldn't fight it, it will just look bad on you."</blockquote>




He has not seen,spoken to, or asked about DD ever since she was born. He has had several opportunities and has not paid a dime of child support. I mean I have asked him if he wanted to come to the park and meet DD earlier this year because I heard he was telling people he wanted to see her. He never responded. :?
We went to the same church for over a month an he ignored her, but he said hello to me.



He has told several people and me he cares nothing about her.



I'm not fussing at you. I'm just mad at the whole situation.

Bonnie Beaver♥ Due April 8; 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 18251 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army ... [snip!] ... daughter also. The courts can and will force you to have a DNA test done. I wouldn't fight it, it will just look bad on you."


This.
And if you refuse, you will be in contempt, and they'll put a warrant out for your arrest. Which REALLY wouldn't look good.

Minion Due September 30 (girl); 2 kids; ., GA, United States 21236 posts
7th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Minion:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army ... [snip!] ... daughter also. The courts can and will force you to have a DNA test done. I wouldn't fight it, it will just look bad on you."</blockquote>




He has not seen,spoken to, or asked about DD ever since she was born. He has had several opportunities and has not paid a dime of child support. I mean I have asked him if he wanted to come to the park and meet DD earlier this year because I heard he was telling people he wanted to see her. He never responded. :?
We went to the same church for over a month an he ignored her, but he said hello to me.



He has told several people and me he cares nothing about her.



I'm not fussing at you. I'm just mad at the whole situation.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
7th Jun '13

Get a new laywer. My lawyer fought for me tooth and nail. He had to convince ME to let him do certain things lol because I thought he was almost fighting too hard. In the end I'm lucky I had him standing up for me though.