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    • yes, text him and tell him you were nervous etc. -- Votes: 36
    • no, just let it go. -- Votes: 13
Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting iamdani:" I would just text him "Hey :)" and that'll give him the hint that you are interested lol. And then go from there."


I can't! haha I can't. I always feel like I need to explain WHY I am texting someone because I always think they don't want to hear from me. :(

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72155 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" This is what I was going to text him: "Hey. I know you're probably away at your basketball thing and ... [snip!] ... I just thought I would tell you in case you thought differently." Help me! haha is that good? no good? what should I write?"


I would just be like "Hey, that first date sucked, I was so nervous and couldn't concentrate and I am totally asking for a do-over."



But I'm just super blunt like that.

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1967 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I would just be like "Hey, that first date sucked, I was so nervous and couldn't concentrate and I am totally asking for a do-over." But I'm just super blunt like that."


Ahahah that's a good one too.

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 21068 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" This is what I was going to text him: "Hey. I know you're probably away at your basketball thing and ... [snip!] ... I just thought I would tell you in case you thought differently." Help me! haha is that good? no good? what should I write?"


The whole "idk if you still like me" thing comes across...child like maybe? I can't find the right word. I don't like it so much. I would probably just text him hey how are you? -make some excuse for taking a WEEK to text him like your kid has been keeping you busy or something- and then be like so what have you been up to? and just casually open up a dialogue. And then maybe work in to what are you doing this weekend or whenever you'd like to go out again.

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I would just be like "Hey, that first date sucked, I was so nervous and couldn't concentrate and I am totally asking for a do-over." But I'm just super blunt like that."


I wish I was able to be that blunt! That's what I want to say!

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 21068 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I would just be like "Hey, that first date sucked, I was so nervous and couldn't concentrate and I am totally asking for a do-over." But I'm just super blunt like that."


Love! Much better than mine lol!

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 21068 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I wish I was able to be that blunt! That's what I want to say!"


So say it! Worst case scenario he doesn't say anything, best case he's like okay great! and mid-case you're talking again. It's a no-lose situation.

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1967 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I would just be like "Hey, that first date sucked, I was so nervous and couldn't concentrate and I am totally asking for a do-over." But I'm just super blunt like that."


Girl just text him that.. you got nothing to lose!! Dooo it!

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72155 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I wish I was able to be that blunt! That's what I want to say!"


Then just say it! :D No point in beating around the bush!

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:" So say it! Worst case scenario he doesn't say anything, best case he's like okay great! and mid-case you're talking again. It's a no-lose situation."


haha take my phone and text him for me!

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 21068 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" haha take my phone and text him for me!"


UPS it down here overnite delivery lol I so will!!

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1967 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" haha take my phone and text him for me!"


Girl you're home.. you got your phone within arms reach.. just do it!

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:" UPS it down here overnite delivery lol I so will!!"


lol DONE!!

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 72155 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" haha take my phone and text him for me!"


What do you have to lose? He may be sitting at home thinking you had a horrible time because you don't like him, that text explains to him why you acted the way you did and shows/tells him that you are still interested!

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 21068 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" What do you have to lose? He may be sitting at home thinking you had a horrible time because you don't ... [snip!] ... you don't like him, that text explains to him why you acted the way you did and shows/tells him that you are still interested!"


ALL OF THIS lol and also...if you wait much longer I probably just wouldn't evne bother. Honestly. Because it's been a week. I'd say up until now you can make an excuse about being busy but much past this point and he is going to think you are just coming back bc you are out of options. Now is the time!