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Cast Your Vote:

    • yes, text him and tell him you were nervous etc. -- Votes: 36
    • no, just let it go. -- Votes: 13
Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting iamdani:" Lol it's all good I wanna know the reply!"


I know! Me too! But he's away for basketball so he may be playing in a game so it may take a while.

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1964 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I know! Me too! But he's away for basketball so he may be playing in a game so it may take a while."


Lamers.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 62251 posts
7th Jun '13

Tell him to hurry up!!!!

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1964 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" Tell him to hurry up!!!!"


:!:

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13

haha you think YOU'RE impatient! I am dying. every time my phone goes off I get nervous. Maybe he's still playing basketball. Maybe he's out partying since he's out of town. Maybe he's just not going to answer. I don't know. :(

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3279 posts
7th Jun '13

First off, good for you for sending the text someone else suggested. That first one you had was terrible and would have scared him off for sure. :)
BUT, you couldn't have been THAT nervous since you got naked with him... c'mon now. You gave it up on the first date, and he's off to the next chick! POF is a hook-up site.
I mean, I hope he gets back to you if that's what you want, but I wouldn't hold your breath. If you're really looking for love, I suggest using a more reputable site.

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1964 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" First off, good for you for sending the text someone else suggested. That first one you had was terrible ... [snip!] ... what you want, but I wouldn't hold your breath. If you're really looking for love, I suggest using a more reputable site."


When did she say she got naked with him...?

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3279 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting iamdani:" When did she say she got naked with him...?"


The other post about how the date went, she said they had a couple drinks, went to his place and had sex. Not much of a first date if you ask me.

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1964 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" The other post about how the date went, she said they had a couple drinks, went to his place and had sex. Not much of a first date if you ask me."


I'm not finding this post.. maybe I'm blind lol.

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3279 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting iamdani:" I'm not finding this post.. maybe I'm blind lol."


This...
"We ended up having a few drinks and going to his house. We talked, we did end up having sex lol. Its been too long for me. Then hr put on that movie mama and we passed out. It might even seem like I of all people was using him for sex haha. If he calls, he calls. If not, at least I got something I've been missing and it wasn't a creepy old guy at the bar."
is from her "ways to calm your nerves" post.




Sorry for being that creepy person that copies and pastes old stuff into new posts, lol. I just remember it cuz we had gotten into a little bit on that other post.

iamdani 1 child; Florida 1964 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" This... "We ended up having a few drinks and going to his house. We talked, we did end up having sex ... [snip!] ... copies and pastes old stuff into new posts, lol. I just remember it cuz we had gotten into a little bit on that other post."


Oh it's in a different post?

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" First off, good for you for sending the text someone else suggested. That first one you had was terrible ... [snip!] ... what you want, but I wouldn't hold your breath. If you're really looking for love, I suggest using a more reputable site."


I can't say I was looking for love, but I did end up liking him. So sue me. I got drunk, I liked him, and it had been a while...sure I had sex! I'm an adult...these things happen. That doesn't necessarily mean that he's "off to the next one". I get what you're saying, but again...really? You need to work on how you come across to people.

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3279 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Spoonful of Jayson:" I can't say I was looking for love, but I did end up liking him. So sue me. I got drunk, I liked him, ... [snip!] ... he's "off to the next one". I get what you're saying, but again...really? You need to work on how you come across to people."


Aw really... I tried really hard to be nice! I started off with a compliment, ended with advice... this had to have crossed your mind anyway. POF has a reputation for being a hook-up site, I'm sure you know that. Don't waste your time on anybody who doesn't have the decency to shoot you a text. It's been a week. If I were you, I'd move on too. :)

Spoonful of Jayson 17 kids; Morrisville, Pennsylvania 11627 posts
7th Jun '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" Aw really... I tried really hard to be nice! I started off with a compliment, ended with advice... this ... [snip!] ... your time on anybody who doesn't have the decency to shoot you a text. It's been a week. If I were you, I'd move on too. :)"


lol no it was definately better! I can tell you tried. haha I know POF's rep...I do. But, I'm a vulnerable lady right now! lol I was hoping for the best and I know my attitude fucked up any possible anything that wasn't already fucked up. lol

Jenny&Boopy 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7294 posts
8th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Mud:</b>" First off, good for you for sending the text someone else suggested. That first one you had was terrible ... [snip!] ... what you want, but I wouldn't hold your breath. If you're really looking for love, I suggest using a more reputable site."</blockquote>




It's not just for hooking up. A lot of us met our SO's on POF. There are a lot of creeps but there are also nice guys.