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My sister is getting married. SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
8th Jun '13

It's her "second" wedding... Her first wedding ended within a year after she discovered she had married a drug addict who drained their bank account. They had gotten married in Vegas. After many years of soul searching, and about 5 years spent with her current fiance, they now share a 1 year old. Her fiance comes from a very spiritual family. They are very close nit. They are from a different country. I love them all so much. I want my sister to stop selling herself short (as I do myself) They make well over 100,000 a year. She claims she can't afford a wedding... but I think she doesn't want to commit to the idea that she DESERVES this wedding, as it is technically her second. I'm trying to convence her to spoil herself and indulge in the beginning of her new life and actually have a small wedding.



We found this dress http://i3.dreamprom.com/1/1728/1728364_1_360_480.jpg



Now how to I pull the rest of the wedding off?

Addy'sMama♡ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Houston, Texas 614 posts
8th Jun '13

She deserves to be happy! She should celebrate the new life she will share with her husband! Have a wedding!!!

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
8th Jun '13

I think talking to her fiance would be a big part of it. If he's not so certain about having one, maybe she doesn't feel like she has the right to push for one. If he really wants a wedding, I think that is important for her to know, so she won't feel so bad about it. And he does deserve to have a celebration for his marriage as well, it isn't just all about her lol.

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" I think talking to her fiance would be a big part of it. If he's not so certain about having one, maybe ... [snip!] ... feel so bad about it. And he does deserve to have a celebration for his marriage as well, it isn't just all about her lol."


Yeah I did ask her ... it seems like it is him... she said she'd ask him about it.