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Dad vents...... almuuh 2 kids; California 1701 posts
8th Jun '13

Hi, sorry I just need to FUCKING vent....



It sucks to be a mom sometimes. Like I'm home with my kids ALLLLLLL day and ALLLLL night ALLLLL week long. I love it idc, but I don't go out. Dads on the other hand, they get a call and leave. No worries, no problems. You don't see me get up and leave like no one needs me. Hours talking about car shit, CAR SHIT!! Like really? Or gonna go help someone with this, with that. I try not to complain but it's annoying as HELL. Yet when I wanna shower, taking the kids for 20 mins is sooo fucking hard right? Or help with a diaper change, just holding them for a minute. Like I'm sorry I disturbed your nap, cuz I don't wish I could have some silence for a few hours. That's some bullshit. :evil::evil::evil::evil::evil::evil::evil:



Thank you for your time.

almuuh 2 kids; California 1701 posts
8th Jun '13

And he wonders why I don't wanna have sex with him! smh... :x

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49301 posts
8th Jun '13

No, only shitty dads do that.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15538 posts
8th Jun '13

Hes like that because you allow him to be. My husband is just as responsible for our kids as I am. There is no way he would just get up and leave for hours because he has a family at home he has to take care of. He does get his guy time every blue moon but I get my girl time also.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49301 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" Hes like that because you allow him to be. My husband is just as responsible for our kids as I am. There ... [snip!] ... because he has a family at home he has to take care of. He does get his guy time every blue moon but I get my girl time also."


Exactly. My husband gets morning duty at least twice a week, he does bath, he does dishes, he ALWAYS does laundry, he does diapers. He never goes anywhere but work really without us unless it's a quick trip to the store. It's EXPECTED of him, and if he argues over something he gets told it's just as much his kid/family/home, as it is mine and he's just as responsible. The ONLY thing I've never expected him to do is night duty, because he works to support us.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
8th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" No, only shitty dads do that."</blockquote>



:!:
You can't just categorize all men as being shitty dads. My SO is a wonderful father.

♥ LA 1 child; ..., KY, United States 612 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Exactly. My husband gets morning duty at least twice a week, he does bath, he does dishes, he ALWAYS ... [snip!] ... mine and he's just as responsible. The ONLY thing I've never expected him to do is night duty, because he works to support us."


Totally the same. Since Lily has been born my DH has always helped me and I expect him to, it is just as much his responsibility as mine. When his off days roll around though, he actually enjoys spending time with DD and talking care of her, while I get some "me time".

LeiLana80 2 kids; Ohio 243 posts
8th Jun '13

**poof**

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49301 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" No, only shitty dads do that."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... dads do that."</blockquote> :!: You can just categorize all men as being shitty dads. My SO is a wonderful father."


If my husband heard someone say "all dads" are like that, they'd get a verbal asswhooping for it.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49301 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting LeiLana80:" Good for all of you who have wonderful SO's. I do not. I feel your pain, OP. Daily."


And it's our fault why? Because we were raised to look for certain characteristics in a man? Because we don't allow a man to walk all over us? Because we CHOOSE to stand up for ourselves? I'm sorry but if someone sits around in a situation and just bitches and does nothing to better it, I have no sympathy for them, and I'm sure as HELL not going to apologize for having a good man.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49301 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ LA:" Totally the same. Since Lily has been born my DH has always helped me and I expect him to, it is just ... [snip!] ... his off days roll around though, he actually enjoys spending time with DD and talking care of her, while I get some "me time"."


OMG isn't it the best thing hearing the giggles and squeals while they play and seeing them together? I can hardly ever get anything done while my husband plays with our son because I'm too busy laughing at them and enjoying their antics lol

LeiLana80 2 kids; Ohio 243 posts
8th Jun '13

**poof**

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
8th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" If my husband heard someone say "all dads" are like that, they'd get a verbal asswhooping for it."</blockquote>




Oh I know what you mean. It pisses me off when females or males pull the "all ___(opposite gender) are absolutely terrible! My ex blah blah blah" well sorry you have picked a shitty person to be in a relationship with and now you blame that entire gender because of a couple people's fuck ups. :roll:

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15538 posts
8th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LeiLana80:</b>" Good for all of you who have wonderful SO's. I do not. I feel your pain, OP. Daily."</blockquote>



YOU are the one who puts up with him being a shitty father. My husband doesn't act like that because he knows he will be out on his ass. I didn't make these kids alone I sure as hell won't raise them alone. Put your foot down and stand up for yourself.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49301 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" If my husband heard someone ... [snip!] ... well sorry you have picked a shitty person to be in a relationship with and now you blame that entire gender because of a couple people's fuck ups. :roll:"


No kidding!