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624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
8th Jun '13

To add, when my cousin puts her foot down temporarily and doesn't give him money he will borrow it elsewhere and then leave my cousin with the burden of paying it back. Of course she has a choice in all of this, she chooses to allow this, don't be like that. Good luck.

Destinite 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 31612 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" If you insist on staying with someone who does absolutely zero for you, at least stop making it so easy ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't give him money at all, frankly. Less than 50 for 2 weeks? Come on. He needs to chip in. No freebies until he does. "


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taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49151 posts
8th Jun '13

My husband has agreed to let me be a SAHM because i go to school full time but he expects me to do all the house work, but i cant complain he is making more then we need and i got my dads old house so all i pay is lot rent because its a modular home so my husband has changed a bit before we moved he didnt want to work he found a job down here were we moved and had to come down a week before we moved to start the job and he loves the work he is doing now...

Iyahna :^P Southern California, CA, United States 13460 posts
8th Jun '13

Sorry mama.I would not trust him with your debit.My brother in law is on parole and they kept pushing him to get a job.It was also one of the things that kept him on parole.Maybe you should talk to his parole officer on his lack of ambition getting a job.Especially since you are about to have your first child.Good luck and sorry you're going through this.




Nevermind.I just saw he got off in Nov.

sugarpie_hunnibunch Due December 7; Japan 83 posts
8th Jun '13

You need a man a husband that is going to respect and support you in evedy aspect of your life. Kick his ass to the curb you don't need another child. Have a tLk with him and give him an ultimatum either he buckles down and put his big boy jeans on ; help you financially or he can't get his shit and move out.



Sorry on mobile. Hope it makes sense.

*Ay&Ryker's Mommy* Due January 14 (boy); 1 child; Kentucky 364 posts
8th Jun '13

Thank you ladies! I just wanted to make sure that in no way can this be flipped around to where I'm being overly sensitive or irrational. I'm just exhausted I can't put up with this BS anymore.. I appreciate all of the positive feedback.

Destinite 1 child; 2 angel babies; Paradise, FL, United States 31612 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting *Ayden's Momma *:" Thank you ladies! I just wanted to make sure that in no way can this be flipped around to where I'm being ... [snip!] ... sensitive or irrational. I'm just exhausted I can't put up with this BS anymore.. I appreciate all of the positive feedback."


Good luck!!