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user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Squeaky McGee [32 wks]:" It appears that she's one of our newest bridge dwellers."


Yeah, just checked her out. How lovely.

homes cool TTC since May 2014; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60983 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting ❥New Beginnings:" Oh the opinions don't matter to me especially when it came from someone who has been living off others ... [snip!] ... thought like that. I just had to let out my steam cause I didn't ant to say anything to her. she'd love to get a rise out of me"


Just don't let her get to you, or anyone else who is that ridiculous. Good parents do what is right for their families.

Squeaky McGee [6 wks] Due May 7; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 65193 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Did you see: http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2508688.html"


Oh, yes. She posted another fun read about stealing her BFF's baby daddy or something like that.

Rhia Leigh 33 kids; Massachusetts 1312 posts
8th Jun '13

We all (for the most part) do the best we can for our kids.. while it may work better for some moms to stay home others need to work and put the kids in daycare. Definitely doesn't make you a bad mother, people need to stop being so judgmental.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
8th Jun '13

I absolutely love daycare. Anyone who thinks it's their business how you raise your child and the decisions you make concerning them is a loser and doesn't deserve to even be acknowledged.

mommy of 2 great boys Due December 22 (boy); 2 kids; Lake City, Florida 446 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting TheNextBest:" I agree. Bad parenting! Its ur job to take care of ur child. U dont pay someone else to watch them grow ... [snip!] ... and got pregnant. Either way tho why do ur children have to pay for ur shitty choices?!! Hmmmn yeah think about that 1!!!!"


Day care also helps a child learn how to interact with other children BEFORE they start school. So NO it does NOT mean someone is a bad parent. Sometimes day care is a better choice for multiple reasons as long as the mother/father makes sure to check it out very well before trusting them with her/his kid.

❥New Beginnings Due September 2; TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; California 16189 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting TheNextBest:" I agree. Bad parenting! Its ur job to take care of ur child. U dont pay someone else to watch them grow ... [snip!] ... and got pregnant. Either way tho why do ur children have to pay for ur shitty choices?!! Hmmmn yeah think about that 1!!!!"


are you being serious right now? I think child care is great and they definitely are not raising my kids. they would have her maybe a total of 24 hours a week IF that and even IF it was more I think it's awesome for kids to interact with others while there parents aren't around.

however, if this is your opinion you are definitely allowed to have it.

* Clairebear * 1 child; Ireland 2678 posts
8th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheNextBest:</b>" I agree. Bad parenting! Its ur job to take care of ur child. U dont pay someone else to watch them grow ... [snip!] ... and got pregnant. Either way tho why do ur children have to pay for ur shitty choices?!! Hmmmn yeah think about that 1!!!!"</blockquote>




You're an idiot!

❥New Beginnings Due September 2; TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; California 16189 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Did you see: http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2508688.html"


OMG hilarious I did not see that before this post this had nothing to do with her! lol

Jenny&Boopy TTC since Jul 2014; 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7349 posts
status 8th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ❥New Beginnings:</b>" are you being serious right now? I think child care is great and they definitely are not raising my ... [snip!] ... with others while there parents aren't around. however, if this is your opinion you are definitely allowed to have it."</blockquote>



Ignore her. She's an idiot.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
8th Jun '13

Didn't you know that if you don't stay at home all the time, breastfeed until age 10, and make all your meals with freshly grown vegetables from your greenhouse you're a bad mom?



and don't even start about if you circumcise---might as well throw yourself in jail, rapist.



IGNORE THOSE PEOPLE. They're nearly always overcompensating for their own shitty chaotic lives.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" Didn't you know that if you don't stay at home all the time, breastfeed until age 10, and make all your ... [snip!] ... yourself in jail, rapist. IGNORE THOSE PEOPLE. They're nearly always overcompensating for their own shitty chaotic lives. "


I'm looking forward to the day I drop Eva and Nora off at daycare, Lilli and Misa off at school, and then celebrate by laughing and buying Starbucks as I drive around child-free.



And then go to Music Theory. :x

Squeaky McGee [6 wks] Due May 7; 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 65193 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" Didn't you know that if you don't stay at home all the time, breastfeed until age 10, and make all your ... [snip!] ... yourself in jail, rapist. IGNORE THOSE PEOPLE. They're nearly always overcompensating for their own shitty chaotic lives. "


Reminds me of a post I saw on here the other day. :D

CerealMakerWife♥ TTC since Apr 2013; 5 kids; Ukraine 36287 posts
8th Jun '13

There is nothing wrong with working and helping support your family. Daycare doesn't = shitty parent. I see plenty of sahm's that are less then ideal parents.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
8th Jun '13
Quoting Sly Saffy:" I'm looking forward to the day I drop Eva and Nora off at daycare, Lilli and Misa off at school, and ... [snip!] ... at school, and then celebrate by laughing and buying Starbucks as I drive around child-free. And then go to Music Theory. :x"


Yep. Being kid free is a wondrous joy. Hell, even having just 2 of 3 away at Grandma Summer Camp I feel great. You know? I love 'em but mama's gotta do mama.