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Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting Miss Brittany:" I was 19 when I had my son and people said the same things to me. Being a mother is hard and expensive, ... [snip!] ... is a full time responsibility, so you have to make sure you are ready and can care and provide for your child. Good luck."


I am in college, live with my fiance and have a job at my school...



Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Jun 9th '13

Because teenagers don't have very much life experience and look at the world through rose colored glasses. And they rarely make the best decision for their future children... they're too concerned with themselves and how the baby will make them feel.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" Because teenagers don't have very much life experience and look at the world through rose colored glasses. ... [snip!] ... make the best decision for their future children... they're too concerned with themselves and how the baby will make them feel."


that is a stereotype... sure in some cases it may be true but lots of adults are like that too, some teenaged moms are wonderful moms



assumptions just make fools of people

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" that is a stereotype... sure in some ... [snip!] ... are wonderful moms assumptions just make fools of people"</blockquote> You think stereotypes come out of thin air?"


ummm lol stereotypes are stupid have you ever heard of racial stereotypes? they have no basis of fact



again lots of adult parents are HORRIBLE parents ... stereotypes in one ear out the other

Aussielover Due May 30; 3 kids; Nunya, ga, United States 823 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" that is a stereotype... sure in some cases it may be true but lots of adults are like that too, some teenaged moms are wonderful moms assumptions just make fools of people"


I agree stereotypes suck, but they are from teens that are really like that. Not to be a b***h or anything, but some teen moms are so freaking stupid. Some are awesome though. We have all heard of the girls that get pregnant at 16, drop out of school, quit their jobs, and then after the baby is born go back to partying at get pregnant again.

BubbleLush Due August 20; 1 child; United Kingdom 512 posts
Jun 9th '13

Stereotypes are stupid you do not judge people based on age,race,nationality so on and so forth sad that this needs to be said!




OP you seem to have a good head on your shoulders keep it up hun.

Cat.Woman. 1 child; Gotham City, PA, United States 3841 posts
Jun 9th '13

We are not trying to be mean. We are giving you our experiences. Sometimes I wish I didn't have my son so young. I didn't know the first thing about raising a child. I was in college, working, and had a fianc

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" that is a stereotype... sure in some cases it may be true but lots of adults are like that too, some teenaged moms are wonderful moms assumptions just make fools of people"</blockquote>




No. Every teen mom. It they were putting the baby above
before themselves they wouldn't BE teen moms.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" that is a stereotype... sure in some ... [snip!] ... No. Every teen mom. It they were putting the baby above before themselves they wouldn't BE teen moms."


lol.. umm okay

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting Miss Brittany:" We are not trying to be mean. We are giving you our experiences. Sometimes I wish I didn't have my son ... [snip!] ... college, a job, and a baby? Like I said before, it can be done. We just want you to know what you are getting yourself in to."


thanks but we wont be paying for daycare luckily my family owns one and family does not have to pay, lucky in that sense we do okay not great but okay



we will try our best I am lucky to have a great guy in my life who has been there for a long time through some crazy stuff



BubbleLush Due August 20; 1 child; United Kingdom 512 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" that is a stereotype... sure in some ... [snip!] ... No. Every teen mom. It they were putting the baby above before themselves they wouldn't BE teen moms."


There are stereotypes for women like you aswell, you have more than one childs father and one did not even believe he was the father, I remember you.



Lots of people would say something about women in your position does not make it anywhere near true.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BubbleLush:</b>" There are stereotypes for women like you aswell, you have more than one childs father and one did not ... [snip!] ... father, I remember you. Lots of people would say something about women in your position does not make it anywhere near true."</blockquote>




I've never doubted the paternity of either of my children. The father of my second said he didn't because he was a scared little b***h but ended up signing an affidavit of paternity without the results of a genetic test, soooo....

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 9th '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BubbleLush:</b>" There are stereotypes for women like you ... [snip!] ... he was a scared little b***h but ended up signing an affidavit of paternity without the results of a genetic test, soooo...."


as she said lol people would stereotype you big time, who cares, I know I do not ..stereotypes are stupid and we all fit into one or two



all of us :?

K.J♥ Due November 4; 2 kids; Russellville, Kentucky 430 posts
Jun 9th '13

I think its more of trying to make you realize that you DO have options. but if you have already decided on your option they shouldn't push it on you. I got pregnant at 16, then 18, and now. after my first pregnancy I learned to tell people straight up that I plan to parent and they usually didn't bring it up anymore. Well, except DS's dad. He was a douche lol.

Mann Makin' Mama[BBM] 18 kids; Dalton, Georgia 11563 posts
Jun 9th '13

Because when you're 17 you should be focusing on school and prom. Not taking care of a child.



This is coming from someone who got pregnant, graduated, and delivered at 17.