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Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 120225 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" and for you LOL we could do this all day"


we could except you dont seem to want to open your mind to anything. That means your age is showing. I will admit there can be bad parents at any age, or that people of any age might not be ready to be a parent. All I was doing was responding to your initial post about why people mention abortion or adoption.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
9th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" I did not b***h about stereotypes lol my post was asking why people mention abortion and adoption you ... [snip!] ... you mentioned stereotypes and no it is not fact and you will not convince me otherwise any age can be bad parents bottom line"</blockquote>




Uh.... pretty sure i never said anything about anyone being a bad parent. So that's completely irrelevant.



But sadly i know i won't change your mind. Because you're 17 and know everything. Your own life experiences will be the only thing that will show you how wrong you are.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" we could except you dont seem to want to open your mind to anything. That means your age is showing. ... [snip!] ... not be ready to be a parent. All I was doing was responding to your initial post about why people mention abortion or adoption."


... I have said I know it will be difficult but not going to accept nonsense about stereotypes never said anything rude or I did not say it was going to be easy, I have a positive outlook on things and if people do not like that so be it not my problem



Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 120225 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting Haysensmommytobe:" ... I have said I know it will be difficult but not going to accept nonsense about stereotypes never ... [snip!] ... say it was going to be easy, I have a positive outlook on things and if people do not like that so be it not my problem "


being realistic is not the same as not being positive

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" being realistic is not the same as not being positive"


lol w/e you say do not see how I am not being realistic have my own way of dealing with things as does anyone else



and that will not be changing

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
9th Jun '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" I did not b***h about stereotypes lol ... [snip!] ... Because you're 17 and know everything. Your own life experiences will be the only thing that will show you how wrong you are."


the way you explained teenmoms to be does not equal a good parent what you explained is a human thing not age thing again your stereotypes mean nothing to me... say my age is showing blah blah but I will continue to ignore nonsense sorry



and if I know everything why do you keep saying the same things over and over again lol

mommyonedaymaybe New York, New York 262 posts
9th Jun '13

lol op I like you :P

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11961 posts
9th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" the way you explained teenmoms to be does not equal a good parent what you explained is a human thing ... [snip!] ... will continue to ignore nonsense sorry and if I know everything why do you keep saying the same things over and over again lol"</blockquote>




You are saying everything over and over again as well op. And its not a stereotype. It is a statistic. Teens are far less likely to have the finances, stability, or emotional maturity to handle being a parent. These are facts. People have a problem with your age because they don't want to see your kid the victim of these statistics. Your more likely to drop out of school, your more likely to end your relationship, and your kid is less likely to have their needs met. And while you might not thunk any of this is the case wirh you you can't really say. You don't know what the future holds. You don't know if you CAN handle being a mom at your age. Hell my step sister was 18 and after 2 years of being a mom she gave up custody of her son because she couldn't handle it. He was sick from being a preemie and she was not prepared for dealing with that.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
9th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommyonedaymaybe:</b>" lol op I like you :P"</blockquote>




so youve found a teen mom you like now huh?

Jenna1234 1 child; Iowa 575 posts
9th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" I did not b***h about stereotypes lol ... [snip!] ... Because you're 17 and know everything. Your own life experiences will be the only thing that will show you how wrong you are."</blockquote>




Just curious, if your 22 and your eldest is 5, doesn't that mean you were 18 when she was born? Not trying to get under your skin or anything, just trying to understand some things in your p.o.v. Your about me says your 22 and your profile says 18 lol

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
9th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... skin or anything, just trying to understand some things in your p.o.v. Your about me says your 22 and your profile says 18 lol"</blockquote>




22 minus 5 is 17.



I had her 2 months before i turned 17. So i know exactly what I'm talking about and every bs excuse op is going to throw out. And exactly how reality is going to slap her in the face.

Jenna1234 1 child; Iowa 575 posts
9th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" ... [snip!] ... what I'm talking about and every bs excuse op is going to throw out. And exactly how reality is going to slap her in the face."</blockquote>




Lol I think I counted back from 23 since I saw your little count down til your 23.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
10th Jun '13
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" the way you explained teenmoms to be ... [snip!] ... of her son because she couldn't handle it. He was sick from being a preemie and she was not prepared for dealing with that."


No one knows if they can handle motherhood...if they have never done it before

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
10th Jun '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" ... [snip!] ... what I'm talking about and every bs excuse op is going to throw out. And exactly how reality is going to slap her in the face."


LOL ... you are crazy

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
10th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" LOL ... you are crazy"</blockquote>



And you are young, stupid, and boring. I'm done with you. I'll find you in a few years and laugh at you then.