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mommyonedaymaybe New York, New York 262 posts
Jun 9th '13

lol op I like you :P

1inpink3inblue Due December 7 (boy); 3 kids; Switzerland 13162 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" the way you explained teenmoms to be does not equal a good parent what you explained is a human thing ... [snip!] ... will continue to ignore nonsense sorry and if I know everything why do you keep saying the same things over and over again lol"</blockquote>




You are saying everything over and over again as well op. And its not a stereotype. It is a statistic. Teens are far less likely to have the finances, stability, or emotional maturity to handle being a parent. These are facts. People have a problem with your age because they don't want to see your kid the victim of these statistics. Your more likely to drop out of school, your more likely to end your relationship, and your kid is less likely to have their needs met. And while you might not thunk any of this is the case wirh you you can't really say. You don't know what the future holds. You don't know if you CAN handle being a mom at your age. Hell my step sister was 18 and after 2 years of being a mom she gave up custody of her son because she couldn't handle it. He was sick from being a preemie and she was not prepared for dealing with that.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommyonedaymaybe:</b>" lol op I like you :P"</blockquote>




so youve found a teen mom you like now huh?

Jenna1234 1 child; Iowa 588 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" I did not b***h about stereotypes lol ... [snip!] ... Because you're 17 and know everything. Your own life experiences will be the only thing that will show you how wrong you are."</blockquote>




Just curious, if your 22 and your eldest is 5, doesn't that mean you were 18 when she was born? Not trying to get under your skin or anything, just trying to understand some things in your p.o.v. Your about me says your 22 and your profile says 18 lol

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... skin or anything, just trying to understand some things in your p.o.v. Your about me says your 22 and your profile says 18 lol"</blockquote>




22 minus 5 is 17.



I had her 2 months before i turned 17. So i know exactly what I'm talking about and every bs excuse op is going to throw out. And exactly how reality is going to slap her in the face.

Jenna1234 1 child; Iowa 588 posts
Jun 9th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" ... [snip!] ... what I'm talking about and every bs excuse op is going to throw out. And exactly how reality is going to slap her in the face."</blockquote>




Lol I think I counted back from 23 since I saw your little count down til your 23.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 10th '13
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" the way you explained teenmoms to be ... [snip!] ... of her son because she couldn't handle it. He was sick from being a preemie and she was not prepared for dealing with that."


No one knows if they can handle motherhood...if they have never done it before

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 10th '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenna1234:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:</b>" ... [snip!] ... what I'm talking about and every bs excuse op is going to throw out. And exactly how reality is going to slap her in the face."


LOL ... you are crazy

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
Jun 10th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" LOL ... you are crazy"</blockquote>



And you are young, stupid, and boring. I'm done with you. I'll find you in a few years and laugh at you then.

Haysensmommytobe Japan 62 posts
Jun 10th '13
Quoting 12.21.07♥04.16.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Haysensmommytobe:</b>" LOL ... you are crazy"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... And you are young, stupid, and boring. I'm done with you. I'll find you in a few years and laugh at you then."


"i'll find you".. umm okay, crazy

GardensOfUtopia Due January 31; 4 kids; Gaspé, Quebec 82 posts
Jun 10th '13

Seems like trolling now. She is getting a kick out of everyone's replies. I came to this part of gaga to help someone but instead I find myself about to run to another area :/

Still hopeful TTA since Dec 2012; 4 kids; Dixon, California 31 posts
Jun 21st '13

I can understand your frustration but is there anything they said that is un true? Don't take it personal. There is alot to consider about being a young mom. Do you have family support? Can you finish school/ who will care for your baby while you are in school? Do you have the means to support your baby? Don't take your pregnancy too lightly, you are in for a complete life change!
I hope you the best of luck!