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what would you do? --K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
10th Jun '13

DS made his dad a fathers day present but we haven't seen or heard from him in going on seven months. I know he was just in jail but I think he go out today. I really don't want to allow gim back in our life just like that so he can walk out again but I don't want DS to feel bad about not giving him his present.



If I can find him what should I say?

Ellie Goulding 1 child; London, --, United Kingdom 4651 posts
10th Jun '13

Could you find out his address and mail it to him or his close family?

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
10th Jun '13

We live in the same town. its part of the reason I'm so disgusted with him. I haven't moved or anything he knows where my house is and what my schedual is yet he makes no effort to see DS :(

Ellie Goulding 1 child; London, --, United Kingdom 4651 posts
10th Jun '13

Wow, that's really shitty of him.
You did say that he's been in jail until today, so hopefully he plans on contacting you soon.
How old is your DS? And how excited is he about the gift he made?
It sounds like a really tough situation. I would probably mail him the gift, essentially leaving the ball in his court and hopefully encouraging him to re-establish a relationship with his son.
Good luck!

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
10th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting VeggieBurglar:</b>" Wow, that's really shitty of him. You did say that he's been in jail until today, so hopefully he plans ... [snip!] ... leaving the ball in his court and hopefully encouraging him to re-establish a relationship with his son. Good luck!"</blockquote>




It was only for like a week I think. Definitely not the same amount of time he hasn't been in touch. My friend just saw him at the beach two weekends ago.



I haven't asked DS about it because I don't want to make him sad if I can't find him.