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7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
11th Jun '13
Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:</b>" I would be so flipping mad if DH made ... [snip!] ... she has ever said to me and treated me because she almost died. Second chances don't come that easy darlin. Not with me."


being bitter wont help the situation. The things she said were hateful and she should apologize but don't let it come between you and DH. Feed them soup & send them on there merry way :)

Mummy-2-2-Monsters Due July 11; 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 10485 posts
status 11th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" being bitter wont help the situation. The things she said were hateful and she should apologize but don't let it come between you and DH. Feed them soup & send them on there merry way :)"</blockquote>



It's not coming between us.




The "relationship" between the in laws and us.. Is basically .. Them using us and we use them in return.



It's just annoying at how much food they consume.

JΔ$ Georgia 77857 posts
status 12th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" being bitter wont help the situation. ... [snip!] ... in laws and us.. Is basically .. Them using us and we use them in return. It's just annoying at how much food they consume."</blockquote>



That is pathetic.

Mummy-2-2-Monsters Due July 11; 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 10485 posts
status 12th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... using us and we use them in return. It's just annoying at how much food they consume."</blockquote> That is pathetic."</blockquote>



Eh maybe to you. But from an outsiders point of view may be pathetic to you, but you truly have no idea than what is written in my vent.

JΔ$ Georgia 77857 posts
status 12th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" ... [snip!] ... to you. But from an outsiders point of view may be pathetic to you, but you truly have no idea than what is written in my vent."</blockquote>



No, it's pathetic for you to use someone. Period. You're even more pathetic for trying to justify it. If she said all that crap about you and your kid, why do you let her around them? It's hilarious. You're using her but have he nerve to get mad that they are using you :lol:

Nicola. 2 kids; Huntsville, AL, United States 8544 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... using us and we use them in return. It's just annoying at how much food they consume."</blockquote> That is pathetic."


I agree. Maybe we are just "outsiders" but it is still pathetic regardless. I wouldn't have someone I don't like watching my kids, just so I can do something without them.
Using your in-laws isn't right even if they use you too.

Mummy-2-2-Monsters Due July 11; 2 kids; Seven Hills, Australia 10485 posts
status 12th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... why do you let her around them? It's hilarious. You're using her but have he nerve to get mad that they are using you :lol:"</blockquote>



I didn't have the nerve of getting mad for them using us.. I said it was annoying and I hate how much they eat. For 2 people, they eat for ten. How would that not be annoying for anyone. I was just venting, no harm. Go ahead call me pathetic for having a babysitter that I keep around because my kids adore and love them. That's basically all she is to hubs and me .. A babysitter. But them they take money off us, constantly asking us to take them out for dinners to restaurants, driving to pick them up somewhere because they didn't want to spend money on fuel so they constantly break down. Tell me how we're just as pathetic? I just have a babysitter.. That the kids love, their "nannan and popa". But I'm pathetic... Okay you think that. Don't care. I can vent as I please, about who I please.