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Staceybaby21 Due June 20 (boy); Kent, United Kingdom 81 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Samantha Lembo:" Since when do midwives perform c-sections? And IDK where you live and maybe that's just her policy, ... [snip!] ... birth but "can't." And in almost every post she contradicts herself. Great for you if you want a section, own up to it, though!"

honestly why do you care your making a big deal out of nothing and if you don't like what i've said then get the fuck off my post your getting boring don't keep going on who are you to judge me i'm sure your far from perfect i'm going by what i've been told is best and that's it all this because i'm having a c section get over it because i have

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kiki~2boys:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Hah I didn't sleep for 5 days. ... [snip!] ... I'd die haha I'm so zombied after pregnancy WITH sleep. I'd probably forget baby at the hospital if I didn't sleep that long"</blockquote>




I had a physical and mental break down. Literally. I started shaking and crying uncontrollably. And we room in here so no rest for mommy lol

Staceybaby21 Due June 20 (boy); Kent, United Kingdom 81 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Samantha Lembo:" Since when do midwives perform c-sections? And IDK where you live and maybe that's just her policy, ... [snip!] ... birth but "can't." And in almost every post she contradicts herself. Great for you if you want a section, own up to it, though!"

why would i feel the need to look for pity i'm not pathetic unlike some people so apparently i've come on here and made up a bullshit story just to get sympathy think what you like because i couldn't give a shit what you or anyone else thinks

Samantha Lembo TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; Bradenton, Florida 751 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Staceybaby21:" honestly why do you care your making a big deal out of nothing and if you don't like what i've said then ... [snip!] ... i'm going by what i've been told is best and that's it all this because i'm having a c section get over it because i have"


When I read your first post I, like many of the others, was concerned that you were receiving biased information and wanted to share what I know with you, believing your claim to want to go natural. As I read on, you were rude, ignorant and accusatory to women trying to help you. And you're sitting there lying about what you really want, knowing that some of us feel very strongly on the subject and were trying to help someone we thought was being mislead, as other ladies unfortunately are every day. And when you're called on it, you continue to lie, contradict yourself and make empty threats. It's only natural to be angry with someone for lying right to your (virtual) face and being such a bitch about it, too.

Samantha Lembo TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; Bradenton, Florida 751 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Staceybaby21:" why would i feel the need to look for pity i'm not pathetic unlike some people so apparently i've come ... [snip!] ... made up a bullshit story just to get sympathy think what you like because i couldn't give a shit what you or anyone else thinks"


I'm not sure why you posted what you did if you didn't actually want any information about your options. If you weren't looking for pity, why post it at all? Or why not post something about c-support support w/out all the rambling about wanting to go natural. Of course we thought you wanted to have a natural birth and tried to offer you advice.

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Neither of my c-sections recovery were like you say....infact, I was up and walking around and showering myself within 6 hours with my 2nd, I guess everyone is dif, :wink:"</blockquote>



Yeah everybody is different, I had a horrible time with my c section, I was jut giving her my experience with my c section, I also had a NICU baby so that also played a part in making breastfeeding difficult seeing as I tried 3 times getting up before actually making it out of bed and into a wheelchair successfully(sp) so he got a bottle with breast milk in it before he actually got to nurse.

justanotherchicken Alabama 2402 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kiki~2boys:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His ... [snip!] ... and mental break down. Literally. I started shaking and crying uncontrollably. And we room in here so no rest for mommy lol"</blockquote>




Oh I'm sorry, that sucks :( what do you mean, you room?

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Kiki~2boys:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... And we room in here so no rest for mommy lol"</blockquote> Oh I'm sorry, that sucks :( what do you mean, you room?"


There's no nursery at out hospital. You have baby 24/7.

justanotherchicken Alabama 2402 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" There's no nursery at out hospital. You have baby 24/7."</blockquote>




Oh ok! Yeah they do that here, they have a nursery but they keep it to just bubs that needs the nurses kind of thing. At least that's what they did... They have a brand new maternity ward and nursery now.
They took my first straight to nursery and got me to co sleep with my second in the birth suite and the next night so that he would sleep through the noise, the poor mum I was sharing a room with couldn't feed and settle her baby and the midwives kept leaving her to it with a screaming baby :(

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Kiki~2boys:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" There's no nursery at out hospital. ... [snip!] ... I was sharing a room with couldn't feed and settle her baby and the midwives kept leaving her to it with a screaming baby :("


Well, I kind of see why they would. No one to rescue her at home.

justanotherchicken Alabama 2402 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Well, I kind of see why they would. No one to rescue her at home."</blockquote>



Oh yeah i can see that, but no one to teach her what she's doing either.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 75333 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Jillynne:" You clearly don't understand the point. The doctor will be paid more, no matter who is doing the paying, ... [snip!] ... day for a natural birth. The fact that the money doesn't come out of YOUR pocket makes absolutely no difference here. :idea:"


Lol, whatever.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 75333 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Samantha Lembo:" Since when do midwives perform c-sections? And IDK where you live and maybe that's just her policy, ... [snip!] ... birth but "can't." And in almost every post she contradicts herself. Great for you if you want a section, own up to it, though!"


Since when do midwives perform c-sections? LOL I never said mine did :? for your info, smart girl, midwives look after PREGNANT women where I live, unless of course you are high risk, then you will see an OB once a month, AND a midwife every other visit, doctors don't do shit for pregnant women, here.



:idea::idea::idea::idea::idea::idea:

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting bia.:" Lol, whatever."


Honestly, that's my thing, she seems like she wants people to feel bad for her for having to have one, but gives all reasons that aren't even valid. Just admit she wants one and call it cool. That's all I said from the start until she started calling me nasty names lol

justanotherchicken Alabama 2402 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Since when do midwives perform c-sections? LOL I never said mine did :? for your info, smart girl, ... [snip!] ... a month, AND a midwife every other visit, doctors don't do shit for pregnant women, here. :idea::idea::idea::idea::idea::idea:"</blockquote>




Yeah full of crap, she started off with 'oh poor me, I wanted a natural birth but..' To 'shut the fuck up, the dr gave me a bunch of bullshit reasons to want a csection' when she got women trying to help and tell her those are not reasons.



OP just stop looking for people to feel sorry for you, if your happy to have a caesarian then say so and good for you. You just look an idiot pretending those reasons are valid.